It's getting a little crazy ...

Original post by christine1221

Jan 16, 2003 04:20 PM

On the BHB board ... and I thought it was just a holiday thing! Wow ... very touchy, gloves are off & the cat-fights have started!

I'm afraid there'll be a brawl tomorrow night!

shamma Posted: Jan 16, 2003 04:56 PM

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Christine...sometimes the silliness makes me just want to scream...move on and grow up already!!!

Stef I am not going for the prizes I want to meet all of you but if I win a prize I will not refuse it

Samanthas Mom Posted: Jan 16, 2003 04:56 PM

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NO WONDER i couldnt find that one
its in NWR
not the bride board :-)))

Samanthas Mom Posted: Jan 16, 2003 04:56 PM

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but it did make me laugh all day!!!

christine1221 Posted: Jan 16, 2003 04:58 PM

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you read my mind again ... shamm

It seems to me that getting married REQIRES maturity ... therefore,

... you can probably figure out where that statement should go.

jennbaby Posted: Jan 16, 2003 04:58 PM

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I had to chime in because I was involved in the 'fighting', I am not childish , actually I believe the person who chimed in to give her opinion that set it off is 'one of yours'
Don't mean to cause trouble here honestly but I had to respond because this is me on that thread

Stef-you are so right about the prizes! Our last GTG had 25 girls or so-no prizes or at least we didn't know there would be prizes.
To post the controversy over here to talk about it makes it worse no?

christine1221 Posted: Jan 16, 2003 04:59 PM

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tammy ... I had no idea what they were talking about ... referring to it, then someone linked the thread.

JennRenee Posted: Jan 16, 2003 05:00 PM

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LOL Deb... Brides Hitting Brides... heehee!!!

christine1221 Posted: Jan 16, 2003 05:00 PM

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no sweetie ... but others have been

bearsbabe_113 Posted: Jan 16, 2003 05:00 PM

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Don't worry Jen, nobody thinks you're childish!!

Suzanne Posted: Jan 16, 2003 05:02 PM

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I think that liweddings has sooo many new memebers and when that happens there is no dought going to be difference of opinion, and i think thats all that it is!!!

Valenia Posted: Jan 16, 2003 05:03 PM

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Sorry guys, I am a Newlywed, and the so-called troublemaker!

christine1221 Posted: Jan 16, 2003 05:04 PM

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jen, I was just thinking that you may have taken offense to that ... definitely didn't mean that ...

Just seems that the 'atmostphere' on that board is a bit negative & there have been more 'fights' than just that one today.

jennbaby Posted: Jan 16, 2003 05:06 PM

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thanks christmasbride

Sonicstef Posted: Jan 16, 2003 05:07 PM

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Jenn & Valenia: I dont think either of you are childish and you both have been contributors to this board all along. Your both entitled to your opinions so dont sweat it.

I think there are some newer girls on the board that post merely to cause trouble (i dont believe they are that obtuse) and of course a lot of existing girls who fall into that trap. As a result, the whole board is freefalling.

jennbaby Posted: Jan 16, 2003 05:08 PM

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Stefanie, you are 100% right-and Thanks
My apologies to anyone if they feel I cause a problem

christine1221 Posted: Jan 16, 2003 05:09 PM

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Jenn, your (new) point is well taken.

dgtlsunshine Posted: Jan 16, 2003 05:17 PM

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I think there is a max to how many ladies can get along and we have reached that max

shamma Posted: Jan 16, 2003 05:18 PM

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My point is, ladies like Jen, who are veterans of the board, should set a standard so others can follow. I think sometimes when you think you are helping you are not!!! Sometimes all you do is add more fury to the fire.

If new people come to the board and start with their mess. You shut them down immediately and leave it at that. I do not like it when it is drawn out and carried on for days that is all I am saying.

I did not mean anyone in particular was childish, I meant the action at the time was childish and it made me want to scream at the violators.

There will always be differences of opinions, that does not make one a trouble maker.

dgtlsunshine Posted: Jan 16, 2003 05:19 PM

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I think when people post smart comments and just mean things we should just ignore it. Really if they are ignored they will stop if they really want to participate.