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Just got into a huge fight with my BIL

AJsMommy122 Posted:

Just got into a huge fight with my BIL

I was screaming at the top of my lungs and now my voice is going away!!!! I am sooo mad at him!!! We have always been sooo close I have never ever even been upset with him before this.
Ever since he started dating this girl last year he has changed for the worse. He is my son's godfather and used to come over ALL the time to see him, and call to see how he was doing. Now he never ever calls, never comes over. If DH didn't call him we would never hear from him. My IL's went to florida for 2 weeks and are coming back on monday. They have a decent sized yard that needs to be cut once a week. My fil is anal about it and that is the only thing he asked my bil to take care of while he was gone. Well of course he didn't do it last week so DH did it. It needed to be cut again so yesterday DH called his brother and asked him to cut it. He said he had a communion in the morning and it would be over at 2 and he would come home right away and cut it. Well its now 6:30 and he still isnt home and the grass is not cut!! He PROMISED dh he would have it done and like idiots we believed him. I know it sounds really petty but its the straw that broke the camels back. He treats his family like crap now. He is 31 years old still lives at home and dosent pay rent, buy food, NOTHING. His parents think its better for him to work and save his money since they dont need his help. But him and his GF have been staying there everyday for the 2 weeks my IL's have been gone eating everything in the refrigerator and freezer and he cant even cut the grass once for them?!?!!?!? If HER parents need him to do anything he goes RUNNING to do it for them. Meanwhile they do nothing for him

Im just so furious he broke a promise to dh and that he can't even do one simple thing for his own parents. This girl has him wrapped around her finger so much is disgusting. Hes not even the same person anymore

Sorry so long!! I had to let that out!
kel2004 Posted:

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He lives with them rent free and your DH mowed the lawn??? That is really wrong.
AJsMommy122 Posted:

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DH dosen't mind at all b/c his parents do SO MUCH for us. Its more the point that DH did it one week and that his brother promised to do it the next and then couldn't even keep his promise
mrswask Posted:

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Honestly - let your in-laws see that he hasn't done that one simple chore and maybe they'll finally put their foot down.

nov04LIbride Posted:

Re: Just got into a huge fight with my BIL


Posted by mrswask

Honestly - let your in-laws see that he hasn't done that one simple chore and maybe they'll finally put their foot down.



I agree. Protecting the ILs from what he has become won't help him.

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