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Ladies, quick question...

2003OCT10 Posted: Sep 15, 2003 12:37 AM+

2003OCT10 MEMBER SINCE: 7/03 TOTAL POSTS : 2630 WEDDING DATE: Oct 10, 2003

Posted: Sep 15, 2003 12:37 AM

Ladies, quick question...

Is all the planning stress really worth it?? I feel like I am starting to have second thoughts, and I just wanna elope if we go through with it, I AM SOO stressed... Just need some reinforcement.

24 days and I will be one of you.

VickiC Posted: Sep 15, 2003 08:21 AM+

VickiC MEMBER SINCE: 1/02 TOTAL POSTS : 2395 WEDDING DATE: Aug 18, 2002

Posted: Sep 15, 2003 08:21 AM

Re: Ladies, quick question...

Try to relax. Everything will come together beautifully and you'll see that it was all worth it in the end. Take a deep breath, and try to remember that it is only a party to celebrate your marriage.

And most of all - have FUN!

anna Posted: Sep 15, 2003 08:31 AM+

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Posted: Sep 15, 2003 08:31 AM

Re: Ladies, quick question...

you CANT give up at this point! youre so close!!

Your day as a princess will certainly be worth all the stress !!!!!!

ChristineC68 Posted: Sep 15, 2003 08:36 AM+

ChristineC68 MEMBER SINCE: 5/01 TOTAL POSTS : 12170 WEDDING DATE: Sep 21, 2002

Posted: Sep 15, 2003 08:36 AM

Re: Ladies, quick question...

On your wedding day as you sit or stand next to your brand new husband and look around the room with filled with your family and friends having a wonderful time an you will say to yourself that it was worth it.

Hang in there, you are so close and it will be wonderful!!!!!!!!

Cira Posted: Sep 15, 2003 08:37 AM+

Cira MEMBER SINCE: 8/01 TOTAL POSTS : 3460 WEDDING DATE: Jun 23, 2002

Posted: Sep 15, 2003 08:37 AM

Re: Ladies, quick question...

I wrote about this last year in my wedding review ... I was getting fed up prior to the wedding and with my DH complaining ... but it's worth it ... here's what I wrote:

The personal touches really made the wedding though. And I know that when we all post our vendor review, we always seem to say that all our guests say that our weddings were so beautiful and one of the best that they attend and that is really because all of us on the board truly put our heart and soul into our wedding (which is why we are on the board) and that definitely shows! From my invitations, to my programs (which I made) to the personalized placecards (which I made) to the color of the flowers to every last detail that we planned really comes out in each of our weddings. Our guests can see this and truly do rave!
My advice - don't forget these touches! My husband complained that I was to into the wedding and I don't need this and that. Well, let me tell you that he was the first to compliment and rave about our wedding because of those touches! It's worth it ladies.

Good Luck!

Sonicstef Posted: Sep 15, 2003 08:54 AM+

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Posted: Sep 15, 2003 08:54 AM

Re: Ladies, quick question...

EXACTLY what Cira said!

IrishTracy Posted: Sep 15, 2003 08:57 AM+

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Posted: Sep 15, 2003 08:57 AM

Re: Ladies, quick question...

Ditto to what Cira said!!!

kelly6273 Posted: Sep 15, 2003 10:57 AM+

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Posted: Sep 15, 2003 10:57 AM

Re: Ladies, quick question...

Try to hang in there. At times I wanted to throw in the towel...in the end IT IS ABSOLUTLEY WORTH IT!!!

bedda26 Posted: Sep 15, 2003 01:15 PM+

bedda26 MEMBER SINCE: 7/02 TOTAL POSTS : 2306 WEDDING DATE: Jul 06, 2003

Posted: Sep 15, 2003 01:15 PM

Re: Ladies, quick question...

Hang in there girl and don't loose it...the stress is worth it because you will be the princess of the day.

2003OCT10 Posted: Sep 16, 2003 01:05 AM+

2003OCT10 MEMBER SINCE: 7/03 TOTAL POSTS : 2630 WEDDING DATE: Oct 10, 2003

Posted: Sep 16, 2003 01:05 AM

Re: Ladies, quick question...

Oh thank you all!!!!!! I feel a little better today!!!!! Thanks for your support and encouragement!

In three weeks I will be one of you!!!!!!!!!

yabbobay Posted: Sep 16, 2003 01:23 AM+

yabbobay MEMBER SINCE: 5/01 TOTAL POSTS : 14690 WEDDING DATE: Dec 28, 1992

Posted: Sep 16, 2003 01:23 AM

Re: Ladies, quick question...

I got married 3 weeks after Cira...and it was at that time that I was pooping out...and then when she posted that exact paragraph...it kicked my butt into motion again....

I am so happy that I stayed with it for the last three weeks and finsihed the little touches...

Scoop Posted: Sep 23, 2003 03:32 PM+

Scoop MEMBER SINCE: 5/02 TOTAL POSTS : 3687 WEDDING DATE: Nov 02, 2002

Posted: Sep 23, 2003 03:32 PM

Re: Ladies, quick question...

get a massage...it does wonders.

nrvbrd Posted: Sep 23, 2003 03:47 PM+

nrvbrd MEMBER SINCE: 10/02 TOTAL POSTS : 5249 WEDDING DATE: Sep 06, 2003

Posted: Sep 23, 2003 03:47 PM

Re: Ladies, quick question...

I totally agree with Cira.

I hated my wedding planning- I so wanted it to end.

However in the end- it all came together. I had them most fabulous wedding. All of my hard work really paid off and it will for you as well.