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lastnight was the Wedding FIASCO and I went.....

MaggieLuvsJoe Posted:

lastnight was the Wedding FIASCO and I went.....

OMG my life was tortured for the entire day!!!

I had to be at the bride's sisters house at 11:45 for pictures, as soon as I got there the other MOH dropped a bomb on me and I wanted to run home screaming. Turns out the bride is pregnant, yup pregnant and she didn't even mention it to me (maybe it's because I just had a miscarriage and she felt bad or maybe it was bc she's a lieing biatch and knows she's a jerk for what she has gotten herself into) I was upset for about 30 seconds and then I laughed at how much of a joke the whole situation is and how thankful I am to have such a wonderful supportive husband and such great in-laws!

We took pictures for about 2 hours, then drove to DUMBO and waited for an hour and 45 minutes for the Groom to get his *** over there with the groomsmen. We were sweating out butts off, I was so freaking annoyed, I didn't want to be a part of anything but I felt so bad for her parents so that was the only reason I was going through with it. We took some pics there and headed to the hall for the 'fake wedding reception' (for those of you that dont remember, this is the girl fake marrying the guy who is already married to someone else to stay in the county bc he's an immigrant here)

The reception was so forced. Her poor parents were sitting down with the same expression on their faces that they had for their sons funeral, pretty sad. Her mom hugged me a few times and thanked me for being there and keeping my mouth shut about the whole sham. Me and DH sat there the whole night, just bullshitting with other guests. As soon as they cut the cake and settled down, we got up and gave her a gift and left. We ended up giving enough money to cover our dinner and that was it.

I will most likely never hear from her again, her parents are so mortified about the whole thing, I'm sure they will be in touch with my parents in the future. I want nothing else to do with her. So sad that a 28 year friendship is over, she was like my sister and yesterday I didn't recognize her at all!
Alexandra17 Posted:

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wow..at least you were nice and covered your plates.
T E R I Posted:

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WOW is all have to say about the whole situation. At least you went for the parents sake and now you can wash your hands of the whole situation. Unfortunately you lost a friend in the whole mess, but hopefully one day she will wake up.

luvabul Posted:

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wow shes pregnant now
Hope everything works out...sorry about your friendship
MirabellaNYC Posted:

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MrsInglima Posted:

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So sorry you had to go through all of this. At least now it's over and you can let her go.
Tracey1979 Posted:

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Her parents knew the guy is already married? I didn't realize that part of it.

I am so sorry for you - very sad.
Amberrenee6705 Posted:

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Oh lord...what a mess

I think your great for doing it though
pandafish519 Posted:

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oh my goodness...

i give you a lot of credit for being there! even with all the bull $h!t.. you are a great friend!
gina409 Posted:

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wow!!!!!! well u dd the right thing by going and she is going to miss having a friend like you

Iluvpoodles Posted:

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wow..that sounds like a headache

coldasice217 Posted:

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I give you a lot of credit for going, because I wouldn't have. Wow, what a situation.

KatieG2010 Posted:

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eeeeekkkkkk


why couldnt they keep it short and sweet and go to City Hall?
Tracey1979 Posted:

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Posted by KatieG2010

eeeeekkkkkk


why couldnt they keep it short and sweet and go to City Hall?



Because it was not a real marriage. He's already married to someone else!!!
MaggieLuvsJoe Posted:

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Posted by Tracey1979


Posted by KatieG2010

eeeeekkkkkk


why couldnt they keep it short and sweet and go to City Hall?



Because it was not a real marriage. He's already married to someone else!!!



Yup!!! It's such a soap opera! I think I might write a book using this story....just don't know how to end it!
KerriJohnS Posted:

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Posted by MaggieLuvsJoe


Posted by Tracey1979


Posted by KatieG2010

eeeeekkkkkk


why couldnt they keep it short and sweet and go to City Hall?



Because it was not a real marriage. He's already married to someone else!!!



Yup!!! It's such a soap opera! I think I might write a book using this story....just don't know how to end it!



WOW!!

Well there isn't an ending just yet. For now... start writing so when the ending comes, you will be up to that part.

This is indeed an insane story. I wouldn't want to bother with this girl either. I feel most sorry for her family at this point.
LadyDuda81509 Posted:

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that really is crainess!!! i cant even imagine

caper24 Posted:

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So sad. you are a better person than me, I don't think I could have gone through with it. Good karma for you, very bad karma for them IMO

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