lastnight was the Wedding FIASCO and I went.....
OMG my life was tortured for the entire day!!!
I had to be at the bride's sisters house at 11:45 for pictures, as soon as I got there the other MOH dropped a bomb on me and I wanted to run home screaming. Turns out the bride is pregnant, yup pregnant and she didn't even mention it to me (maybe it's because I just had a miscarriage and she felt bad or maybe it was bc she's a lieing biatch and knows she's a jerk for what she has gotten herself into) I was upset for about 30 seconds and then I laughed at how much of a joke the whole situation is and how thankful I am to have such a wonderful supportive husband and such great in-laws!
We took pictures for about 2 hours, then drove to DUMBO and waited for an hour and 45 minutes for the Groom to get his *** over there with the groomsmen. We were sweating out butts off, I was so freaking annoyed, I didn't want to be a part of anything but I felt so bad for her parents so that was the only reason I was going through with it. We took some pics there and headed to the hall for the 'fake wedding reception' (for those of you that dont remember, this is the girl fake marrying the guy who is already married to someone else to stay in the county bc he's an immigrant here)
The reception was so forced. Her poor parents were sitting down with the same expression on their faces that they had for their sons funeral, pretty sad. Her mom hugged me a few times and thanked me for being there and keeping my mouth shut about the whole sham. Me and DH sat there the whole night, just bullshitting with other guests. As soon as they cut the cake and settled down, we got up and gave her a gift and left. We ended up giving enough money to cover our dinner and that was it.
I will most likely never hear from her again, her parents are so mortified about the whole thing, I'm sure they will be in touch with my parents in the future. I want nothing else to do with her. So sad that a 28 year friendship is over, she was like my sister and yesterday I didn't recognize her at all!![]()
I had to be at the bride's sisters house at 11:45 for pictures, as soon as I got there the other MOH dropped a bomb on me and I wanted to run home screaming. Turns out the bride is pregnant, yup pregnant and she didn't even mention it to me (maybe it's because I just had a miscarriage and she felt bad or maybe it was bc she's a lieing biatch and knows she's a jerk for what she has gotten herself into) I was upset for about 30 seconds and then I laughed at how much of a joke the whole situation is and how thankful I am to have such a wonderful supportive husband and such great in-laws!
We took pictures for about 2 hours, then drove to DUMBO and waited for an hour and 45 minutes for the Groom to get his *** over there with the groomsmen. We were sweating out butts off, I was so freaking annoyed, I didn't want to be a part of anything but I felt so bad for her parents so that was the only reason I was going through with it. We took some pics there and headed to the hall for the 'fake wedding reception' (for those of you that dont remember, this is the girl fake marrying the guy who is already married to someone else to stay in the county bc he's an immigrant here)
The reception was so forced. Her poor parents were sitting down with the same expression on their faces that they had for their sons funeral, pretty sad. Her mom hugged me a few times and thanked me for being there and keeping my mouth shut about the whole sham. Me and DH sat there the whole night, just bullshitting with other guests. As soon as they cut the cake and settled down, we got up and gave her a gift and left. We ended up giving enough money to cover our dinner and that was it.
I will most likely never hear from her again, her parents are so mortified about the whole thing, I'm sure they will be in touch with my parents in the future. I want nothing else to do with her. So sad that a 28 year friendship is over, she was like my sister and yesterday I didn't recognize her at all!