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LOTS of NON PRO PICS - I'm Back and Married, but...

Original post by Lools

I have seen a few pictures of myself taken by guests and I have to say that I really really dislike my gown. I am totally regretting it and wish I could go back and change it.

I had had major issues with it as soon as it came in. Either the bridal shop I ordered it from sent the wrong measurements or the manufacturer screwed up - no one took blame - but it came in about 6 inches too long and waaaay too big on me. It wasn't an easy fix either because there was a pattern of lace on the dress that had to be altered as well. I took it to a seamstress who did a great job and the best she could with it. The dress was seriously a nightmare and caused me so much stress. In the end I trusted that it would be beautiful, but now that the wedding is over and I look back I just wish I had shelled out the dough for one of the pricier gowns I had tried on in the beginning since they flattered me so well and made me look amazing.

My gown made me look like I had no waist and it was all gappy in the front under my boobs. It''s not so bad from the side, but it's bad from the front. I'm so scared to see my proofs. I had actually lost about 10lbs before the wedding but you can't tell because the dress made me look 10lbs heavier. I am just kicking myself that I didn't run back to the shop where the pricier dresses were and just bought one off the rack while my dress was being altered.
I'm sorry girls, I just needed to vent. I can't stand the way the sash looks either. It looks messy and as if I tucked the top of my dress into the sash.

Here are a couple picks. I had wanted to wait to share pics of my wedding on LIW until I had gotten professional proofs, but I'm just too upset right now and I need to vent.

one pic is me with Ida881 - she's so sweet and stopped by before the ceremony to say hello.
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AeroJenn Posted:

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Okay....being totally honest here, I can see what you're saying in SOME of the pictures. The great thing is, its not noticeable in most of those pictures you posted. With that said, you still looked incredible and so so happy. As much as I loved my dress on the day of, I look back and think I should have chosen a different dress instead of going with what my mom wanted me to wear. I regret my dress choice. But in the end, it was one day and we now how a lifetime with our husbands. In other words.....its just not that important. And I bet your husband thinks you looked breath-taking on your wedding day.
mycrayon1 Posted:

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I love this pics, however I can see what you mean about the fit, it does bunch a bit on top. Otherwise I loved it and you looked beautiful in it and DH still loves you no matter what so don't worry about it!!

Future Mrs. Posted:

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you look beautiful!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! The dress looks great!
You are being so self critical and I know how you are b/c I am the same way. For months after, I scrutinized EVERYTHING about my wedding, from my dress, to the places people sat during the ceremony. THen one day I got so disgusted and I realized that.....I'm married! My wedding was amazing!
And it looks like yours was, too! (and your dress, too! )
jessandjimiswedding Posted:

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i think you look great!! congrats!!!

GettinHutched Posted:

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'huggy: I'm sooooo sorry you feel this way - I can TOTALLY empathize. For one thing you do look beautiful and glowing - but I know from my own experience no matter how much people say it, the imperfections you see will still nag at you.

My corset was not tied tight enough (at least I think this was the reason) and I had this constant fold underneath my boobs- I see it all over my pictures and it makes me NUTS. Hardly anyone notices it unless I point it out. It was our big day, so of course we'll find things to fixate on. I even feel I shoulda gone with my second choice dress, but what can you do....

What I can say though is - you won't feel so bad after some time has passed.
Daisy Bride Posted:

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you looked beautiful ! The dress doesnt look bad at all it's really nice. But I know how you feel, even though it looks good you don't feel good about it. Try not to regreat anything because it is very pretty & it looks like you & everyone in the pictures had a good time

mandc722 Posted:

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I'm so happy to see your wedding pictures! Everything was GORGEOUS. You made some great choices. Yes, I can somewhat see what you're saying about your dress, but we are definitely are own worst critics. I was critical of myself too. But believe me, your opinion will change over time and those little things that are bothering you now won't even be noticeable to you in the future. Congratulations!

PegaLega Posted:

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You look beautiful! I see what you are talking about with the bunching but it is NOT as bad as you think it is! You look beautiful and if it makes you feel even slightly better-you will be holding your bok in front of you in alot of pics!
Lools Posted:

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THANKS GIRLIES!!! I still wince when I look at some of the pics, but oh well, I can't do anything about it now!
My wedding was so lovely and perfect. I wish you all could have been there! It was everything I had imagined! Once I get my proofs I'll start working on my review.
joan_db Posted:

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I can see what you are saying - and thats because you pointed it out - I probably wont notice it a all. I think you look beautiful. I love your cake and your bo-k.

Everything is not going to be perfect except you and your hubby together!! CONGRATULATION!!
nmeandwjh Posted:

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Lauren,
I think you look stunning! Your radiant smile is the thing I see most when i look at your pics. I can't wait for your review!
Nicole

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