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Makes your heart melt... Kind of long

Christys0925 Posted:

Makes your heart melt... Kind of long

what would you do? You make the choice. Don't look for a punch line, there isn't one. Read it anyway. My question is: Would you have made the same choice?

At a fundraising dinner for a school that serves learning-disabled children, the father of one of the students delivered a speech that would never be forgotten by all who attended. After extolling the school and its dedicated staff, he offered a question: 'When not interfered with by outside influences, everything nature does is done with perfection. Yet my son, Shay, cannot learn things as other children do. He cannot understand things as other children do. Where is the natural order of things in my son?'

The audience was stilled by the query.

The father continued. 'I believe that when a child like Shay, physically and mentally handicapped comes into the world, an opportunity to realize true human nature presents itself, and it comes in the way other people treat that child.'

Then he told the following story:

Shay and his father had walked past a park where some boys, Shay knew, were playing baseball. Shay asked, 'Do you think they'll let me play?' Shay's father knew that most of the boys would not want someone like Shay on their team, but the father also understood that if his son were allowed to play, it would give him a much-needed sense of belonging and some confidence to be accepted by others in spite of his handicaps.

Shay's father approached one of the boys on the field and asked (not expecting much) if Shay could play. The boy looked around for guidance and said, 'We're losing by six runs and the game is in the eighth inning. I guess he can be on our team and we'll try to put him in to bat in the ninth inning.'

Shay struggled over to the team's bench and, with a broad smile, put on a team shirt . His Father watched with a small tear in his eye and warmth in his heart. The boys saw the father's joy at his son being accepted. In the bottom of the eighth inning, Shay's team scored a few runs but was still behind by three. In the top of the ninth inning, Shay put on a glove and played in the right field. Even though no hits came his way, he was obviously ecstatic just to be in the game and on the field, grinning from ear to ear as his father waved to him from the stands. In the bottom of the ninth inning, Shay's team scored again. Now, with two outs and the bases loaded, the potential winning run was on base and Shay was scheduled to be next at bat.

At this juncture, do they let Shay bat and give away their chance to win the game? Surprisingly, Shay was given the bat. Everyone knew that a hit was all but impossible because Shay didn't even know how to hold the bat properly, much less connect with the ball.

However, as Shay stepped up to the plate, the pitcher, recognizing that the other team was putting winning aside for this moment in Shay's life, moved in a few steps to lob the ball in softly so Shay could at least make contact. The first pitch came and Shay swung clumsily and missed. The pitcher again took a few steps forward to toss the ball softly towards Shay. As the pitch came in, Shay swung at the ball and hit a slow ground ball right back to the pitcher.

The game would now be over. The pitcher picked up the soft grounder and could have easily thrown the ball to the first baseman. Shay would have been out and that would have been the end of the game.

Instead, the pitcher threw the ball right over the first baseman's head, out of reach of all team mates. Everyone from the stands and both teams started yelling, 'Shay, run to first! Run to first!' Never in his life had Shay ever run that far, but he made it to first base. He scampered down the baseline, wide- eyed and startled.

Everyone yelled, 'Run to second, run to second!' Catching his breath, Shay awkwardly ran towards second, gleaming and struggling to make it to the base. By the time Shay rounded towards second base, the right fielder had the ball ... the smallest guy on their team who now had his first chance to be the hero for his team. He could have thrown the ball to the second-baseman for the tag, but he understood the pitcher's intentions so he, too, intentionally threw the ball high and far over the third-baseman's head. Shay ran toward third base deliriously as the runners ahead of him circled the bases toward home.

All were screaming, 'Shay, Shay, Shay, all the Way Shay'

Shay reached third base because the opposing shortstop ran to help him by turning him in the direction of third base, and shouted, 'Run to third ! Shay, run to third!'

As Shay rounded third, the boys from both teams, and the spectators, were on their feet screaming, 'Shay, run home! Run home!' Shay ran to home, stepped on the plate, and was cheered as the hero who hit the grand slam and won the game for his team.

'That day', said the father softly with tears now rolling down his face, 'the boys from both teams helped bring a piece of true love and humanity into this world'.

Shay didn't make it to another summer. He died that winter, having never forgotten being the hero and making his father so happy, and coming home and seeing his Mother tearfully embrace her little hero of the day!
PegaLega Posted:

Re: Makes your heart melt... Kind of long

I would do the same thing, I think that every child-no matter what there capabilities are should be able to enjoy being just that- a kid. I think that its all too often that kids arent taught manners-morein the sense they make fun of other children with disabilities and I think its heartbreaking. I think that children who bend and flex to allow other children like Shay who are less inclined to enjoy being a child should be rewarded-and the parents too for teaching their child morals and instinct. Those children 'may' have won or lost a game-depending on which team you are on-but they gave ONE child what may have been the most exciting day of his life.

Christys0925 Posted:

Re: Makes your heart melt... Kind of long


Posted by PegaLega

I would do the same thing, I think that every child-no matter what there capabilities are should be able to enjoy being just that- a kid. I think that its all too often that kids arent taught manners-morein the sense they make fun of other children with disabilities and I think its heartbreaking. I think that children who bend and flex to allow other children like Shay who are less inclined to enjoy being a child should be rewarded-and the parents too for teaching their child morals and instinct. Those children 'may' have won or lost a game-depending on which team you are on-but they gave ONE child what may have been the most exciting day of his life.



I could not have said it better myself!! My friend sent it to me and it really just made my heart melt....
PegaLega Posted:

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I love hearing stories like this-of course its saddening that the little boy died but there is nothing like hearing he had something great happen to him.

My mothers old boss had 2 kids, one was completely healthy, smart, VERY intelligent...he youngest was severely autistic-the only word he could say was NO, you could make him repeat after you but he had no idea what he was saying. I baby sat the younger one while the older one was in school. Their mother called me about the time I would be picking the older one up from the bus stop asking me if I could go to the school she had spoken to them and they knew I would be picking him up.

I get to school and her son is in trouble, he was suspended b/c another boy called his brother retarded...and it set him off. As upsetting as it was I almost wanted to tell him that he did the right thing.

Today-its so excepted for people to make fun of other with disabilities-but no one can help what they are born with,they do their best to deal with what life throws at them and if there are people in theworld willing to stand up for those people more power to them.
Drv0716 Posted:

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Oh gosh that story made me cry. Thr first thing that came to my mind as a mother is 'I hope I am doing a good enough job as a mother that, had my daughter been one of those children playing baseball, she would've done the same thing.' Stories like this retore my faith that there are good people out there that do care about others. It's so heartwarming to know that that sweet little boy had at least one day where he could enjoy childhood just like any other child.

SusiBtoM Posted:

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I have read the story about Shay once before, and it is absolutely heartwarming.

The gift of joy for a disabled child is absolutely priceless.

But - there is the skeptic in me that wonders if this story is true. It is just too good to believe in this day and age.
I want to believe that it is true, that there is kindness and goodness in human nature in this world.

For today, I believe in the goodness of human nature.
ant n tilde Posted:

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Thank you for sharing . . . I have read it before but it is especially poignant for me at this moment. I am trying to find information about religious programs for my nephew, who has autism. He does not speak but he understands and I know it is a long shot but I really can't imagine him never receiving Holy Communion. It is so important to me and my family that he receives his sacraments. They just started a special needs religious education program in my parish and I keep forgetting to contact them, even though I am almost positive they won't be able to help us

Sorry for the tangent, but that is a great story!
melissankurt07 Posted:

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I too have read this story before and yet I cried all over again reading it.
I would have done the same thing and would hope everyone would but I wonder too if that story is true. I have a hard time believing that kids would give up winning a game that they came from behind in to let a kid who they knew had no chance in hitting the ball go up to bat.
I know that kids are very rude and don't have many manners these days. I so hope that this story is true and that there are kids left in this world who don't judge people by there covers and are willing to do nice things for people.
PattyK Posted:

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I have read this story before and every time I read this story it makes cry and touches my heart. If I were in the same situation I would do the same thing. I had the priviledge of doing temp work with an organization that worked with special needs children & adults and it was my favorite work experience and if they ever needed me again I would go back in a heartbeat. I also think that it is a good thing that the other children put Shay's need to belong above their own need to win a game.

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