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MIL Vent

Original post by KarenK122

Well I have a good MIL story for ya : ). My MIL is pretty ditzy and I can go on and on about things she does...mostly I just ignore it and say to myself, thank god my mother isn't like that, BUT this weekend took the cake.

For our wedding we purchased each set of parents a wedding portfolio with our pictures in it from the photographer. Neither wanted full albums. I involved my MIL in the process as much as I could...she picked out pictures, layouts, leather type. So they are finished about a month ago and I give it to her. I show her how it is displayed and made sure she liked it. Mind you this cost us about $350.

So jump to this weekend. I'm sitting in her livingroom and look over and see a picture of me and my FH in this nasty frame on the wall. I'm thinking to myself....I never gave her that reprint. Then i look on the coffee table and there is another 5x5 picture of my DH and his brother stuck in a 5x7 frame. So I get up and look and what did she do???

She cut up the whole portfolio and took out the pictures!!!! The pictures were mounted to the leather backing so she cut through all the leather too!!!

I didn't even say anything to her because I'm so pissed about the waste of money. I just could have ordered reprints and saved a few hundred. My DH yelled at her and she was just like oh i didn't realize I couldn't cut it!!!

UGH inlaws!!!!!
beachgirl13 Posted:

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I can't believe that! Crazy!
NYCMeghan Posted:

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I'd definitely get her a pair of scissors for her next gift!

Cindy Posted:

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That is the exact reason we didnt pay extra for parent albums. With all you spent, you could of just went to get some enlargements and saved so much money. Sorry that this happened. It must of killed you with the money you spent.
2003fallwedding Posted:

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OMG!! You are better than me. I would have yelled at her before DH even got a chance to open his mouth (yes,I have issues with my inlaws). I would not buy her anything ever again.
mv1003 Posted:

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They just don't get it!!!! I'm so frustrated for you! I hate to waste $$- and the reprints probably wouldn't been around the same, but at least you'd save your time trying to pick the layout etc.! Crazy!

You're handling it good though! I've got a big mouth (one of my shortcomings) and I'd have to say something- like 'what were you thinking?'
Julybaby Posted:

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I would not buy her another expensive gift again. If you have to buy her something, make it cheap!

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