Monday NWQOTD

NikkiR515 Posted: Jun 07, 2010 07:43 AM

Monday NWQOTD

Morning Girls!

Some of us have been married for a few years now while others a few weeks. So my question is how has your relationship changed, if at all, since getting married?

For us I definitely see a change. For one we are more relaxed because we don't have a wedding to plan anymore! And honestly I just feel happier knowing he is my husband. I know that sounds pretty cheesy but it makes me smile to hear him say 'my wife'.

LadyDuda81509 Posted: Jun 07, 2010 07:44 AM

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our relationship itself didnt really change! stil just as in love as before!! but our mind set went from wedding planning, to house hunting, to bill paying! and for me baby making!! (still trying to get DH on the bandwagon for that one!) lol!!!!!

chicky724 Posted: Jun 07, 2010 07:48 AM

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Well we went from wedding planning, to house hunting, to puppy training! So we've kept ourselves busy.

MR1223 Posted: Jun 07, 2010 08:14 AM

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nothing has really changed in the almost 4 weeks we've been married. except we're in total house hunting mode now. this past weekend was very tiring lol.

miamimerger Posted: Jun 07, 2010 08:22 AM

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Since we were already so happy, we didn't really think we'd see a change...but there's something about marriage that just makes us feel really wonderful about each other; it's a new form of respect and love. I know, I brought on the cheese this morning.

Lsorrent Posted: Jun 07, 2010 09:42 AM

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So far? Nothing, but it hasn't even been two days, lol. But we've already lived together for 3 years, and have been together for 10, so there aren't too many surprises. I will say, he's been extra nice the past couple days though

julesrbf Posted: Jun 07, 2010 09:49 AM

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Not much, other than having more free time. We are continuing to just enjoy life together and go on adventures with each other.

springsandra Posted: Jun 07, 2010 09:53 AM

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We are so much happier now that we're together! (We didn't live together before... we weren't even in the same state at the end!)

In the past few weeks, I haven't been able to cook or clean as much because I feel nauseous all the time, so DH is a little unhappy about that (he totally understands, but he misses the home food) so I look forward to when I feel better so I can get back to that since I really enjoy it. But in general, our relationship and love has only seemed to grow since we've been married. I feel very lucky every day that this is my life.

MrsC2010 Posted: Jun 07, 2010 09:53 AM

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well its only been a little over a month now....and nothing MAJOR has changed. But I do enjoy not having the wedding planning stress anymore. And I am also just happy feeling more like a 'family' with DH (and our puggy)

halfbaked Posted: Jun 07, 2010 09:59 AM

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So far nothing has really changed. We've lived together for 3 years, dated for 5 years, so it's old hat to us now. LOL! The only difference I can see is now he's got a ring on his left hand, too!

But we are much more relaxed since we don't have to plan the wedding anymore. It's been wonderful!

coldasice217 Posted: Jun 07, 2010 10:36 AM

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We are definitely less on edge with each other that we don't have the wedding stress looming over us, so I'd say that overall our relationship has improved. He's still a monkey and can still be really annoying, but c'est la vie!

gina409 Posted: Jun 07, 2010 11:35 AM

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people always ask..has it changed..do u feel diffeent..and we really dont..just as goofy as we were before..now we just live together and deal with me falling in the toliet or him having no covers cause i stole them etc

scatteredx12 Posted: Jun 07, 2010 06:24 PM

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Honestly, I don't think our relationship has changed at all... There definitely isn't any wedding planning stress, so that's nice, but our relationship itself is just as wonderful as it always has been, and my last name seems to be the only thing that has changed.

MoochsWifey Posted: Jun 07, 2010 06:32 PM

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We've been together for almost 9 years and have lived together for 7 years so there really wasn't much to change.

I think TTC has changed our relationship more, ours has been a bit of a difficult journey and IMO we have handled every step so well. I know now more than ever that I have a partner, alli (sp?) and friend for life.

alli3131 Posted: Jun 07, 2010 07:00 PM

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Nothing has changed. I feel the same as I did before we were engaged, during the planning and now after we have a house.

I wouldnt want it any other way. If things changed I would think something wasnt right.