my 'im not the NWOTW but i still have a question' question

sugarnspice Posted: Aug 27, 2010 12:13 PM

my 'im not the NWOTW but i still have a question' question

If you were to in the midst of planning now, and knew what you knew,
-would your BP be the same
- guest list have major changes ie great frineds now you didnt have then or people that burned you and you are upset they were there

etc

AngnShaun Posted: Aug 27, 2010 12:14 PM

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BP would be exactly the same
Guest List would be exactly the same maybe 2 or 3 added to it...

the only change is that i would have hired a DOC

kris_gets_hitched Posted: Aug 27, 2010 12:14 PM

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There would definitely be one extra person added to my BP.

No major guest list changes.

brittndave Posted: Aug 27, 2010 12:18 PM

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1 person wouldn't be in my bp

2 people wouldn't be invited

halfbaked Posted: Aug 27, 2010 12:20 PM

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There would def. be a switcheroo or two in my BP. I would've made my sister my MOH, without a doubt!

As for invites, no I would've still invited everyone I did.

Bride825 Posted: Aug 27, 2010 12:20 PM

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BP : same

guestlist: add a few more people

sugarnspice Posted: Aug 27, 2010 12:27 PM

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i feel like i would have a complete re-worked BP... but thats because i have weird friendships

eternitybride Posted: Aug 27, 2010 12:28 PM

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Guest list would have changed, we would have added some people that we weren't able to invite and not have listened to MIL with

'well, they invited DH to their sons Bar Mitzvah, so you have to invite them' (ummm, that was almost 20 years ago )

Bridal party, would have left out the BM who wound up dropping anyway, and would have added someone who became a close friend right around the time of the weddin

julesrbf Posted: Aug 27, 2010 12:29 PM

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No, I would have kept things the same. Guest list and BP.

StaceyWill Posted: Aug 27, 2010 12:30 PM

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Posted by julesrbf

No, I would have kept things the same. Guest list and BP.

Ditto

little j Posted: Aug 27, 2010 12:47 PM

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BP would have 1 more girl

guest list would def change!

nraboni Posted: Aug 27, 2010 12:58 PM

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Posted by julesrbf

No, I would have kept things the same. Guest list and BP.

me too!!

MoochsWifey Posted: Aug 27, 2010 01:02 PM

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BP would have been changed. I would have left my PITA cousin and her husband out. I also would have had DH add my MOH's boyfriend as we have gotten really close in the last year and I'm sure they will be getting married in the future.

Guest list would have included some more people, especially a few LIW girls

FutureMrsG Posted: Aug 27, 2010 01:04 PM

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I would have a MOH and a BM instead of 9 people in my bridal party. I would limit the guest list to close friends and family with a max of 150 guests. Dh really wanted a huge wedding and while the day was beautiful he has hardly talked to MOST of his guests since the wedding. WHY I did not out my foot down I still do not know.

MrsC2010 Posted: Aug 27, 2010 01:16 PM

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i think i would have kept everything the same basically

LadyDuda81509 Posted: Aug 27, 2010 01:16 PM

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BP would def be differnt...

and the only changes with my guest list would prob be all the girlies ive met from this site!! wish i knew all of you before my wedding!!

FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted: Aug 27, 2010 01:38 PM

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Posted by APastries2010

If you were to in the midst of planning now, and knew what you knew,
-would your BP be the same
- guest list have major changes ie great frineds now you didnt have then or people that burned you and you are upset they were there

etc

No my BP would be diff... I would have put someone else as MOH (simply bc im closer to that person) and i DEF would have had at least 1 more girl who i became really close with... but as time goes on, im sure my grp of friends will change yet again... rel's change... thats life

my guest list would have remained the same... no major changes there...

chicky724 Posted: Aug 27, 2010 01:41 PM

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Both would have stayed the same.

MrsDrinkh20 Posted: Aug 27, 2010 01:49 PM

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Good question...my guest list would have changed only because i would have added quite a few LIW ladies. My bridal party DEFINITELY owuld have changed!