Need a spark!!!
Since we have gotten married all we do is fight about money. We lived together for 6 years before we tied the knot, but now we have joint bank accounts and it is really putting a damper on our relationship. We put all of our wedding gifts into one account and have decided to each put an additional $1200/month into the account so taht we can save for a home. Well, it just seems like the $$$ doesn't seem to be growing and I don't know where it is going. So, I get annoyed and accusatory and he get defensive and furious and the night is ruined and has gone as far as to ruin a weekend. How can we make this situation easier and less tense?
