Need some support from the ones that have BEEN THERE

B22 Posted: Aug 22, 2007 09:46 AM

Need some support from the ones that have BEEN THERE

Ladies please tell me some of you have felt this way...

Snickers76 Posted: Aug 22, 2007 09:58 AM

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Oh yes, I know that feeling well. I rethought EVERYTHING about my wedding. My dress, flowers, venue, programs...everything! My wedding was just lovely and yours will be too! I didn't have everything that other girls have, but that's ok because I had other stuff that they didn't have--like my kick-a$$ friends and family. It was when i was looking around at all of these characters that I realized, all of that extra stuff doesn't mean anything-these people mean everything. We had a great time.

naps714 Posted: Aug 22, 2007 10:05 AM

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Oh my goodness!! Totally normal!!! I wanted to change basically everything!!! But I have to tell you that when the day finally came I was so glad I didn't!

It's just because it's getting close and now that everything is basically done, you need something to think about!

Everything will be beautiful!

JulyBride14 Posted: Aug 22, 2007 10:10 AM

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I think everyone feels like that! and not just about their wedding! You can look back at everything in your life and wonder 'what if I did this differently?'. Your wedding day should be a reflection of you & your DH. All that matters in the end is you are marrying the love of your life & all your family & friends will be there with you to celebrate!

Don't worry! You will have a beautiful wedding!

B22 Posted: Aug 22, 2007 11:07 AM

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thank you guys so much.... I just needed someone to state the obvious... that its NORMAL to feel this way...

cindyandkevin Posted: Aug 22, 2007 11:17 AM

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Yup, perfectly normal!!!!!!!!

You'll doubt everything for the next few weeks, it's a part of the worry/stress process. But then you'll wake up the morning of your wedding and say 'well this is it, what will be will be'. So just make the best of it and enjoy yourself. There's nothing left for you to do but have a great time and just be in love with your STB DH!!!