new post about thanksgiving

So I just put up a post if its to early to invite family over for thanksgiving./.......
well I just found out that my family will not be comming over my house for thanksgiving
They were all ready 'invited'over another family memebers house
ALl my life I had spent thanksgiving with my fathers side of the family.... AND NOW they are going to spend it with someone else......
THIS bothers me becasue......ever since I moved out east... we have had battels over the holidays BECAUSE they do not want to travel so FAR
Well they are going to NORTH PORT JUst as far as we are............................................................
Am I wrong or do I have the right to be upset?

NO I have not talked with them
I asked my sister when should I send out invites for Thanksgiving
Last year I sent out acctual invitaions...
SHe said you can now BUT anut .. And all that family
are going to Northprort for thanksgiving....
SO I will send them out a inivation and see what they say
even though I am VERRY UPSET