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Now that your married......

billandme Posted:

Now that your married......

Do you actually FEEL like a wife????

Some days I do......and then others, I still feel like we are dating.....it's sooooo strange! I mean, after dating for so long, then being engaged, THEN getting married.....I just don't know if it's COMPLETELY set in yet, you know?

VERY strange......

What about you?
Ericab1980 Posted:

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I still feel like just a fiance.. lol We were engaged longer than we dated..I always called him my 'fiance' that saying 'husband' is so foreign to me

I still don't feel like a 'wife' sometimes..
billandme Posted:

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Posted by Ericab1980

I still feel like just a fiance.. lol We were engaged longer than we dated..I always called him my 'fiance' that saying 'husband' is so foreign to me

I still don't feel like a 'wife' sometimes..



Yah, as much as I LOVE saying that he's my hubby, when those words come out of my mouth, they just sound strange to me....... I'm sure it will feel more comfortable as time goes on.....but right now, it's a HUGE adjustment
Summer07Bride Posted:

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We didn't live together beforehand so now I definitely feel like a wife.

werock0709 Posted:

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I definately feel like a wife. I cook, clean, take care of our boys. I just don't have rollers in my hair, and a moo moo on! But seriously, I do feel like a wife. It's wonderful.
EverlovingEv Posted:

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Posted by Summer07Bride

We didn't live together beforehand so now I definitely feel like a wife.




me too!
Missladybug15 Posted:

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i am starting to feel like a wife, it definitely took awhile

hayleyandsteve Posted:

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i definitely feel like a wife! i havent started work yet, so i'm usually home for most of the day.... and i cook dinner, then steve comes home and says 'honey, i'm home!' (just to be cute) .... i love it
Renee615 Posted:

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Posted by EverlovingEv


Posted by Summer07Bride

We didn't live together beforehand so now I definitely feel like a wife.




me too!



I agree!
Becks526 Posted:

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We lived together before getting married, so being a wife doesn't feel that much different. Now I just have to remind DH to put on his ring in the morning!

HamptonsBride Posted:

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Somedays I feel it...somedays i don't, especially with DH away...

mandc722 Posted:

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Posted by hayleyandsteve

i definitely feel like a wife! i havent started work yet, so i'm usually home for most of the day.... and i cook dinner, then steve comes home and says 'honey, i'm home!' (just to be cute) .... i love it



That's exactly what my life has been like for the last year right down to the 'honey, I'm home!' (same reason). Now I'm working but I get home first so I still get the same greeting or 'there she is!'
soon2bmrsVPT Posted:

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Not at all.. I finally had a 'wife' moment when i went into my school the other day and all of my classroom materials & faculty mailbox was in my new name.. other than that, we've been together for 6 years so it all feels the same
milana Posted:

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Nope i dont really feel like a wife to be honest lol..still feel like were engaged...and when having a convo with her other people and i say, me and 'my husband' i cant help but feel old lol

Aug07OFCbride Posted:

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its so new, it definitely hasnt set in for me at all. i still feel engaged and then ill catch a glance of my ring or his or ill just look at him and think, wow, this man is my husband!! when he calls me his wife i cant believe it. the sound of it gives me butterflies. and in those moments i get sooo excited! but it doesnt really feel real yet. i wonder how long it will take.

lilpie19 Posted:

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I'm still getting used to it. Some days I do and others I still feel like we are dating. It's still all surreal to me!
Athee07 Posted:

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nope!!! feels the same to me!@ lol

PegaLega Posted:

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Some days, but nothing much has changed for us so not very often

iBCraZ131 Posted:

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Nope - not at all - I feel like people won't believe me when I say 'husband' but we also didn't live together before the wedding either and I don't feel any different. We dated for 8 1/2 years before getting married and I STILL don't feel like his wife. I feel like we're just playing house!!

JulyBride14 Posted:

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Maybe its because we lived together before, but things don't feel much different. The only time I feel like a wife is when people say husband or wife. And when they do, I'm usually like, 'who are they talking about?'

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