NW please help!

Did any of you fight bout the wedding with DH right before the big day????? FH & I are fighting alot right now & I am getting worried....we never fought like this EVER in our whole 14 year relationship.

Stress! It does a lot to a relationship. Don't worry it will pass. Are you just fighting over details or larger issues?

The fights are over the details, but there is a larger looming issue...his extremely controlling and opinionated family. Unfortunately, he seems to be letting them talk him into things that we decided we didn't want.

Melani your wedding day is gonna be amazing
Try not to stress

YES!!! Just before the wedding....it's def. the stress. Don't worry...it will pass

we rarely fight...but we had the biggest fight of our relationship the day before the wedding when he was dropping me off at my moms...

all b/c his SIL couldn't find the FG dress (I had left it at his aunts house) and I freaked out...


it turned out to be right in front of her!!!

3 words: 'This too shall pass'
stress - don't let it get to you.

Melani- We did the same thing- We didn't sleep for 3 days because we were up fighting. I packed the whole apartment and was moving out all over, what sounds like the same thing that you are describing. It was horrible. I literally would not sleep (until Noreen yelled at me) I had to get it all out and it was competely from stress.


's to you! Just try and take a couple of hours for yourself every day and destress!!!

You're almost there!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Posted by cmc723

3 words: 'This too shall pass'
stress - don't let it get to you.

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Mel, I agree.

Hope to see you this weekend

Oh goodness yes!!!! You are so not the only one.

It was mostly about his laziness and procrastination, but the day of it was pure bliss. I laugh about this now.

Not to worry.

We argued a lot right before the wedding. It was a combination of stress, emotion, pressure to get things done and tie up loose ends.

It stopped the evening before the wedding when there was nothing more we could do. We had a wonderful time at a BBQ that evening and a magical wedding day.

We did. I was a stressed out Bridezilla!
We were fine once the big day came.

Yes, yet another reason why we were happy to have a less then a year engagement!