NWQOTD 5/24

Hi all! I'm happy to be NOTW and remember all the way back to being BOTW which was probably about a year ago. . . ah memories

What was the moment (aside from your wedding and HM) where it really hit you that you were married?

Have you had ANY moments of missing being single? Not regret that you were married but any sort of nostalgia that you would never be there again?

1. today when i activated my final cc with my new last name !!!

2. sat at the met yankee game!!! soooooooo many cute guys. man did i wish i was single.lol

The other day I had to fill out a form and it asked for my MAIDEN NAME, I almost sh*t my pants, I said out loud 'omg i have a maiden name' and the woman next to me giggled and said 'o you must be a newlywed'

when im waiting in a waiting room and they call 'mrs. miller'

im like AH!

1.- Changing my name and posting my new status on FB Sad but true, thats prob the second time I bugged a little. We lived together from like day one so being married didnt feel any different than just dating.

2.) Negative...DH loves to party just as much as I do. So Im not missing out on being out on the weekends, drinking and having a good time. The single scene is fun..but the single dating scene is rough n I dont miss that.

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Posted by Lovebug2016

2.) Negative...DH loves to party just as much as I do. So Im not missing out on being out on the weekends, drinking and having a good time. The single scene is fun..but the single dating scene is rough n I dont miss that.

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i totally agree with this! we still go out and have a good time with friends and stuff so I dont feel like im missing anything.

as for #1, I am not sure its only been like 3 weeks. I still dont think its really hit me yet haha

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Posted by stinenandy2010

The other day I had to fill out a form and it asked for my MAIDEN NAME, I almost sh*t my pants, I said out loud 'omg i have a maiden name' and the woman next to me giggled and said 'o you must be a newlywed'

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that's so funny!

1. would be lately because we have been house hunting and applying for loans so therefore im Mrs. Hutton

2. would be like last night when I would have loved to go out to the bar, have fun, drin and dance...but I wish more that I was kid-less for a night than husband-less, he doesnt care about me going out...haha. It would be wonderful to do something without having to pay a babysitter...just once...

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Posted by MrsC2010

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Posted by Lovebug2016

2.) Negative...DH loves to party just as much as I do. So Im not missing out on being out on the weekends, drinking and having a good time. The single scene is fun..but the single dating scene is rough n I dont miss that.

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i totally agree with this! we still go out and have a good time with friends and stuff so I dont feel like im missing anything.

as for #1, I am not sure its only been like 3 weeks. I still dont think its really hit me yet haha

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Yeah - I was totally going to post another question for you REALLY newlywed girls but figured you'd still have some way to relate!

buying our house...

and officially changing my direct deposit to our joing account ugh...no more secret purchases that i would tell DH my mom bought! lol

The first time I really felt married was when DH introduced me to someone as his wife ... maybe about a month after the wedding or so. I was like, 'Oh yeah! I am his wife!'

I never wish I was single! Not ever.

1. I don't know that it's really hit me yet. It's hard for me to say 'my husband' out loud lol. But if anything it was coming home from our mini-moon and having our marriage license waiting in the mailbox for us.

2. Of course there's always that pang of 'this is it- forever!!' lol but I wouldn't trade DH for anybody else in the world.

i think when i first tried on a wedding dress it ht me that im actually getting married

i never miss being single for a second..but i do miss having my own bed sometimes ..he is a cover hog


oops i answered wrong...first time it hit me that we were married..def when dh was on the phone and used the words my wife..i started to cry

i dont think it has really hit me yet lol. on our honeymoon, instead of saying our names to each other, we would say 'hey husband' or 'wifey' lol. but i just picked up some pictures from target and when i was typing in my last name, i started to write my maiden name and i had to delete it and write my new last name. so weird!

i dont wish i was single again - but there's always the cute guys at the gym to look at lol.

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Posted by RitasEngaged

i honestly never felt different - is that weird?

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I hope not, because I still don't feel different either. Sometimes when I hear DH say 'my wife' I start up like WHAAAAATTTT??? Ready to smack him down...and then I realize he's talking about me

Sometimes I wish I was back in my freshman year of college, which was the year before I met DH. Just because as much as it hurt, was weird and awkward, or just plain ridiculous at the time I was 'dating'...it was kinda fun, and it gave me a lot to look back on and shaped me. I'm glad I don't have to do it anymore, but it sure gave me enough fodder to right a novel!

When we were at the OB when we were prego & they called Mrs G------ WOW MARRIED & PREGO Was all i thought lol

I kinda miss that freedom of being single hanging with my girls & scoping the hotties! Especially when were all atthe beach. lol lol It was fun but i LOVE being married & out of that whole scene too!

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Posted by Summertimegal424

when im waiting in a waiting room and they call 'mrs. miller'

im like AH!

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me too and its the same name

I don't think I had any moments where I had the realization I was married and before that I didn't. But I've had moments where I have been so utterly blissful that I had a big wave of happiness hit me where I was like 'I am so glad to be married and to have found DH.'

I rarely miss being single, I like being in relationships better. But once in awhile I miss being able to go out clubbing with my friends. I think, though, that that's more like missing that time in my life more than actually wanting to go out and do it now and I can't. I could if I really wanted to, I'm just pretty over it. If I want to dance with my friends, I can do it anytime and I don't need a club for that.