if you or your DH could have your dream job but it required you to live in another country for 7 years would you do it? (and it's not just across the border in canada or mexico)
If you were given 3 million dollars but had to gain 100 pounds to do it. . . would you? (and you can't just have lipo or surgery to get rid of it )
If you could have your dream house paid for but it meant that you and DH had to live 1 week of every month apart would you do it?
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So. .this is a game of would you if. . .
if you or your DH could have your dream job but it required you to live in another country for 7 years would you do it? (and it's not just across the border in canada or mexico)
If you were given 3 million dollars but had to gain 100 pounds to do it. . . would you? (and you can't just have lipo or surgery to get rid of it )
If you could have your dream house paid for but it meant that you and DH had to live 1 week of every month apart would you do it?
- Dream job - probnot as i could never be that far from our families for that length of time. Ill find my dream job not to far from home. lol
- 3 million for 100 pounds - probnot im to much of a health freak to allow myself to do that to my body & my health!
-Dream house - Although tempting i must say ill just save & get our own dream house where DH & I can enjoy everday together! What is ahome without the ones u love in it everyday!?
Although i can understand everyone can do a little time apart but i don tthink this is necessary time apart. I'd rather get it on our own.
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if you or your DH could have your dream job but it required you to live in another country for 7 years would you do it? (and it's not just across the border in canada or mexico)
We have already talked about this.....DH had an opportunity to work in India and I had a chance to work in the UAE...both were around the time of the wedding so we said no but we both would seriously consider it now.
If you were given 3 million dollars but had to gain 100 pounds to do it. . . would you? (and you can't just have lipo or surgery to get rid of it )
Nope.....I know how hard I worked to lose weight and Im not sure I have that in me again.
If you could have your dream house paid for but it meant that you and DH had to live 1 week of every month apart would you do it?
Probably- DH and I are ok with being apart from each other and I actually thing it does a relationship good for some time aoart
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i would chose the house w 1 week apart. for the first 1.5 years of our relationship, i was living upstate NY and he was in qns. so we are used to it.
yeah it *****. but it makes the time together so much more enjoyable and fun
also, if when we are together we dont need to talk/stress about money/bills, it would be worth it!
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if you or your DH could have your dream job but it required you to live in another country for 7 years would you do it? (and it's not just across the border in canada or mexico)
Depends on the country, but if its Europe then in a heartbeat. 7 years is a long time but I would. I wanted to go live in Switzerland for a year and work in my dad's friends hotel, but I never did. But Asia probably not... which is the only place that DH could get a dream engineering job. --------- If you were given 3 million dollars but had to gain 100 pounds to do it. . . would you? (and you can't just have lipo or surgery to get rid of it )
No... 100 lbs would make me unhealthy, I would rather be healthy then rich. ------ If you could have your dream house paid for but it meant that you and DH had to live 1 week of every month apart would you do it?
YES!!! I spend a lot more then a week apart from him every month now... I would welcome a week. Thats a sacrifice we made just to live where we want to live, so for our dream house sacrificing a week would be no problem. My parents basically did that. My father had a job that he traveled so much when I was a kid. A lot of people do. Its really pretty normal to spend a week apart from your spouse.
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So. .this is a game of would you if. . .
if you or your DH could have your dream job but it required you to live in another country for 7 years would you do it? (and it's not just across the border in canada or mexico)
If you were given 3 million dollars but had to gain 100 pounds to do it. . . would you? (and you can't just have lipo or surgery to get rid of it )
If you could have your dream house paid for but it meant that you and DH had to live 1 week of every month apart would you do it?
1. Yes we would absolutely live in another country for 7 years (as long as we are together) we love traveling and experiencing different cultures (even though we havent traveled that much together yet)
2. This is a tough one...but im going to say yes. 3 million dollars would change our lives and all the things we could do with the moneyt would give me the motivation to lose the weight.
3. No, I think right now we have our dream house, and one day it will be paid off. I have no problem waiting for that. We had a long distance relationship for 2 years before we got married and it sort of ******...
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[Oh i guess I should answer too. . I forget when I post questions. . . .
So. .this is a game of would you if. . .
if you or your DH could have your dream job but it required you to live in another country for 7 years would you do it? (and it's not just across the border in canada or mexico)
it depends on where it was. . I would want to say yes but 7 years is a LONG time to not be around family and since we want to have kids. .not sure. . that said my sis's spouse in from england so if they moved there AND our dream job was there maybe. . but would be sad to not be around my parents bc they're aging. .
If you were given 3 million dollars but had to gain 100 pounds to do it. . . would you? (and you can't just have lipo or surgery to get rid of it )
Nope. . as much as I need the money I think it's SO hard for me to lose it, it wouldnt be worth it and i LOVE being active, gym, yoga, so it would be hard. .. now 40 LBS. . bring it
If you could have your dream house paid for but it meant that you and DH had to live 1 week of every month apart would you do it?
YUP! Maybe not if this was forever but right now I'm away so much it feels like it would be a bargain! I might answer differently when/if a baby comes!
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if you or your DH could have your dream job but it required you to live in another country for 7 years would you do it? (and it's not just across the border in canada or mexico) -Yes. We would still be able to visit our family over holidays & vacations.
If you were given 3 million dollars but had to gain 100 pounds to do it. . . would you? (and you can't just have lipo or surgery to get rid of it ) -No. That would be a lot for the body to have to handle & I wouldn't put my health at risk.
If you could have your dream house paid for but it meant that you and DH had to live 1 week of every month apart would you do it? -No. We will have our dream house in time.
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if you or your DH could have your dream job but it required you to live in another country for 7 years would you do it? (and it's not just across the border in canada or mexico) - i know we would both move to another country in a heartbeat, so yes!
If you were given 3 million dollars but had to gain 100 pounds to do it. . . would you? (and you can't just have lipo or surgery to get rid of it ) - no way! i worked hard to go down 2 sizes for the wedding and at 5'1', an extra 100 pounds would definitely not be pretty lol.
If you could have your dream house paid for but it meant that you and DH had to live 1 week of every month apart would you do it? - nope! i dont think a dream house is worth not spending time together to enjoy the house.
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1. Yes 2. NO 3. NO
miamimerger
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Dream Job: YES! We would love to embrace other cultures.
Millions for Pounds: Absolutely not. I'd be miserable.
Dream Home: Possibly...would I still be able to see DH during the week? If so, sure. If not, no.
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1. maybe -depending on where but i dunno because i dont wanna be so far from our families
2. yes - for 3 million i would totally gain 100 lbs...then just hire trainers and nutritionists to help me lose it!
3. no - id rather we buy our own house and not have to be apart that much
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if you or your DH could have your dream job but it required you to live in another country for 7 years would you do it? (and it's not just across the border in canada or mexico)
well my dream job is be a stay at home mom, so if the only way i could do that is go to another country that hell yes!! LOL
If you were given 3 million dollars but had to gain 100 pounds to do it. . . would you? (and you can't just have lipo or surgery to get rid of it )
Absolutely! concidering ive pretty much gained a 100lbs without the money im all for it! i know how to lose it if im motivated!! 3million dollars i think would be worthe being a bit of a fatty for a while! lol
If you could have your dream house paid for but it meant that you and DH had to live 1 week of every month apart would you do it?
hmmm a week a part?? im sure we could do it, but i dont know if i would like it. We are pretty happy in our house now, so im going to say no
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if you or your DH could have your dream job but it required you to live in another country for 7 years would you do it? (and it's not just across the border in canada or mexico)
Sure!
If you were given 3 million dollars but had to gain 100 pounds to do it. . . would you? (and you can't just have lipo or surgery to get rid of it )
DEF NOT!
If you could have your dream house paid for but it meant that you and DH had to live 1 week of every month apart would you do it?
Nope!
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if you or your DH could have your dream job but it required you to live in another country for 7 years would you do it? (and it's not just across the border in canada or mexico)
Probably not. Maybe if it was in Europe, but even then probably not.
If you were given 3 million dollars but had to gain 100 pounds to do it. . . would you? (and you can't just have lipo or surgery to get rid of it )
Absolutely not.
If you could have your dream house paid for but it meant that you and DH had to live 1 week of every month apart would you do it?
Yes. Doesn't mean we still can't see each other. We don't spend a lot of time 'living together' even now lol, and we didn't live together for a full 5 years before we were married, so we're used to it, and if meant having a dream house fully paid for I'm sure we'd both do it in a heartbeat.
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1.no way!!!!! id my my fam and his fam and our friends way too much
2.im already fat so why not..i could buy more ho ho's
3.hell yea!!!!! we would survive
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yes yes - i say this now... but actually gaining it would be horrendous!!! yes - it's ONLY a week.... there are 3 others in each month!! some months have more time too!!!!
and there's always jenny craig and ww. :)
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Love these!
if you or your DH could have your dream job but it required you to live in another country for 7 years would you do it? (and it's not just across the border in canada or mexico) No… even though it would probably be amazing, I would miss my family and friends too much. MAYBE for a year but that’s about it.
If you were given 3 million dollars but had to gain 100 pounds to do it. . . would you? (and you can't just have lipo or surgery to get rid of it ) That is a TOUGH one… I think I would – if I had $3m I wouldn’t have to work and then could just work out 24/7 like on The Biggest Loser to get rid of it.
If you could have your dream house paid for but it meant that you and DH had to live 1 week of every month apart would you do it? Ummm I don’t think so. Our house now isn’t my “dream” house but I’d much rather have that then miss DH for a week.
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If you were given 3 million dollars but had to gain 100 pounds to do it. . . would you? (and you can't just have lipo or surgery to get rid of it ) That is a TOUGH one… I think I would – if I had $3m I wouldn’t have to work and then could just work out 24/7 like on The Biggest Loser to get rid of it.
true. . I bet you could pay Jillian Michaels to move in with you!!
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So. .this is a game of would you if. . .
if you or your DH could have your dream job but it required you to live in another country for 7 years would you do it? (and it's not just across the border in canada or mexico)
If you were given 3 million dollars but had to gain 100 pounds to do it. . . would you? (and you can't just have lipo or surgery to get rid of it )
If you could have your dream house paid for but it meant that you and DH had to live 1 week of every month apart would you do it?
Let's see:
Living in another country for 7 years- no I don't think I could. I'm a creature of habit, I like where I live now.
Part of me wants to say hell yes, do you know how much fun it would be to gain 100 lbs? I could eat EVERYTHING! But the part of me that worked so hard to lose 20 lbs. the last two months says no, don't do it!
The last one is a no brainer for me. DH and I would both benefit from taking a week (probably the monthly visitor week) off from each other every month. It would make it exciting to see him all over again every month. And we'd have our dream home!!