OK so I need a HUUUUUUUUUUUUGE Favor!

I normally dont stoop to this type of thing but it's a bit of a comlpicated story. Anyway having sort of a 'war' on FB with a 'so-called friend' - she has been posting in code about DH & I and we have been posting in code primarily about her - but really about her & her husband and the way they have NO clue what it means to be a friend or to have a friendship. It's a really long story behind all this so not going to go into all the details, but - as much as a loser this is going to make me seem like - if you're a FB friend of mine (& even if you're not - send me a request & I'll accept ya) would you mind posting something to my wall about either me being a good friend or knowing how to be a friend. I realize even as I type this now, how 'childish' this seems, but I really want to shove it in this biotch's face that DH & I DO know how to be friends to people. I feel like she thinks that 'she' knows how to be a friend (even though we've always been the ones extending the hnad of friendship EVERY SINGLE TIME)

Thanks in advance for entertaining my sad little FB drama

(Oh & PS - the reason Im not just defriending her is b/c she just became friends w/ DH's XW so it's just easier for me keep to keep tabs on XW by keeping this dumb a$$ as a FB friend)

i'll friend you right now! . If you get a friend request from someone named Laura, it's me!


ETA: I can't find you

I'm happy to do that and engage in childish but satisfying things. . I'll facebook friend you if you send me your last name (which I know I knew at some point but totally can't remember!)

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Posted by miamimerger

i'll friend you right now! . If you get a friend request from someone named Laura, it's me!


ETA: I can't find you

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I got ya...thank u hunny - I feel so pathetic having to even stoop to this level - but this girl has been getting so rude with her posts that I just need to put her in her place. But glad we get to be FB friends now too...WOOHOO!

I would love to Laurie, especially since it's true!

You got it hunny!!!! Every word I'd true!!!!! Love u!!!! If u wanna talk text me!!!!

Did it

Laurie..... I just saw this and went to your page! I'm dying laughing at how many people posted to.... this girl is going to be like 'what the heck is going on??'


what is she writing about you on her fb posts?

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Posted by KerriJohnS


what is she writing about you on her fb posts?

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well as of Monday she called me a phoney, then wrote 'Some people should look in the mirror first..', then today it was 'Playing the victim camouflages an innate responsibility we all have to live the best life we know how.', then is response to her own post she writes all of this:

'that's what friends do - they may not talk for days, months, YEARS, and they don't cry about it when you do start talking again..THAT is what a REAL friendship is all about.

I've just noticed that there are people in this world that play the victim. The poor me, feel sorry for me..(actually, it makes me think of the movie 'It's Pat' hehe) I need to have daily affirmations of how wonderful I am, etc.. I'm just sooooo glad I'm not one of them! :)'

But this is the same 'friend' who has also posting things like 'I'm so glad Im in a relationship where I dont need to make delcarations of love every day on my husband's FB page. So glad Im NOT one of THOSE people...'

She is just mean & jealous b/c she has no idea what it means to be nice to someone, to put time & effort into having and cultivating a friendship & is so quick to judge people like DH & I just b/c we like to write nice things to each other b/c we love each other THAT much & that's how WE roll!



But thank you SO much to everyone that posted something. I REALLY did appreciate EVERYTHING that was written & I consider myself so lucky & blessed! Thank you again for indulging me in this 'war' - but I really hate mean, jealous & spiteful people like that & if she can get a little dose of her own medicine through 'childish' means, then so be it - let justice be served!

i was wondering what the love fest was all about...now i know your great laurie, haha but i thought something was up that everyone decided to write within the same hour!



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