Does she want a jugler? Honestly dancing the night away is fun and I think most people enjoy it. I think she has a lot of nerve to say it will be boring! I didn't do the garter toss or the bouquet toss- my wedding was still fun. Please God don't let his 12 year old cousin (unless she plays professionally) do a solo of any kind. And the best man speech may end up being full of fun poetry Is she looking for Jay Leno to do his act? Perhaps she can sing and do an act for all. WHat else does she want? IMO, being with friends and family, having a good meal and dancing to good music is great fun for all