We have the mortgage committment, we were approved by the co-op, but STILL don't have a closing date!! I really had no idea that buying a co op would be this insane!
My attorney said that the UCC search is being filed by the bank attorney (instead of a title, we get this for a co-op) and we have to go into his office, probably on Thursday to sign it and then it takes another week to officially get filed. They won't give a closing date until after it's filed, which will be around May 2nd. We paid our rent through April, and I really thought we'd be out by the first weekend in May. Our apt is filled with boxes, and now I don't feel like doing anything else until we know when we're moving. It looks like we won't be moving until may 17th--4 weeks before my due date!!!
I'm really going to lose it soon, I've never been so frustrated with anything. I feel like we're being strung along and someone really is out to get me. What kind of lesson can this experience be teaching me???
LisaT
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shamma
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Oh Niha I am sorry to hear. Vent all you want, I can only imagine the frustration you feel, seeing that you have all those boxes packed and you are very preggo. I will offer you hugs
Scoop
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My cousin just bought a co-op and had similar problems. How frustrating!
Niha...sorry about the problems and delays...but at least things are moving...
hang in there...
susans
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I know exactly how you feel. Wish I had words of advice, but I don't. Red tape blows. We were living in boxes for 3 weeks as well. Hang in there. It's so worth it when it finally DOES come.
NIHA
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Thanks everyone
Diane
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Hang in there a little bit. Trust me it will be worth the wait
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Niha- I know this is a very difficult situation. You really need a night out. Living in boxes or out of them or even when they are all around you is depressing and makes you worried about unpacking them. Please consider hiring someone to clean the co-op for you when you move in. It will be really difficult for you to scrub a bathroom at that point and vacum etc... I know that it costs a bit, but your sanity and happiness will be worth the $100. Also, consider taking a day off before your move and try to relax. All of this stress is NOT good for you.