Pervy Question #5: Lil' more serious but still fun

PeteysBride Posted: Mar 28, 2008 03:28 PM

Pervy Question #5: Lil' more serious but still fun

Here is one to make you think a bit...

1. Did you save yourself for marriage?
2. Do you wish you did?

I did not save myself for marriage. I didn't want to be frustrated like my mom (who has on several occasions told me she regrets my dad being the first one..TMI!!!!)

In some ways I wish I did wait, but in others I am glad I had the experience so that by the time DH came around I could say 'YES he IS the one!!!! I should make a model...No more stinkin 4 inches here!'

kellybean Posted: Mar 28, 2008 03:32 PM

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I was a virgin when I married ex husband , def not when married DH and I appreciate everything he does so much more

SusiBtoM Posted: Mar 28, 2008 03:44 PM

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I was 41 years old when I got married for the first time !

Heck no I did not save myself.
I would have been a dried up old prune if I did.

amytee Posted: Mar 28, 2008 03:45 PM

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Posted by SusiBtoM

I was 41 years old when I got married for the first time !

Heck no I did not save myself.
I would have been a dried up old prune if I did.

amytee Posted: Mar 28, 2008 03:46 PM

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i didn't save myself either

vmystique33 Posted: Mar 28, 2008 03:46 PM

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Posted by SusiBtoM

I was 41 years old when I got married for the first time !

Heck no I did not save myself.
I would have been a dried up old prune if I did.

Christys0925 Posted: Mar 28, 2008 03:48 PM

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UMMMMM No!!!!!!!!!!!
But I am glad I did not. I would not want to be 40 and feel like I missed out on anything!

AeroJenn Posted: Mar 28, 2008 03:53 PM

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I didnt. I'm glad I didnt. DH was my first, but we did it when we first started dating. It worked out great and we had years to experiment together.

teenigrrl Posted: Mar 28, 2008 03:56 PM

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heck no!!! i was 28 when i met DH. i'm glad though that i had others to practice with so i was a pro by the time DH came around

LoveRocks Posted: Mar 28, 2008 04:02 PM

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No and I'm so glad that I didn't. DH and I both brought alot of experience into this relationship and that's why we both rock each other's world in bed

kahlua716 Posted: Mar 28, 2008 04:07 PM

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1. No
2. no

I think I would regret not having more experiences if I had waited. I would always wonder what it would be like with others...if there would be a difference, if it could be better, worse...etc.

Aug07OFCbride Posted: Mar 28, 2008 07:12 PM

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1. No
2. Yes

PattyK Posted: Mar 28, 2008 07:23 PM

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1. No
2, No

DH was not my first and I am glad that I 'tested' the waters before, it makes me appreciate DH all the more.

SylvieB Posted: Mar 28, 2008 07:25 PM

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No & HELL NO!!!

Athee07 Posted: Mar 28, 2008 07:36 PM

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Posted by AeroJenn

I didnt. I'm glad I didnt. DH was my first, but we did it when we first started dating. It worked out great and we had years to experiment together.

same here- we were actually each others firsts and we dated 7 years before marrying

hayleyandsteve Posted: Mar 28, 2008 07:40 PM

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Posted by Athee07

Posted by AeroJenn

I didnt. I'm glad I didnt. DH was my first, but we did it when we first started dating. It worked out great and we had years to experiment together.

same here- we were actually each others firsts and we dated 7 years before marrying

us three (dated for 6.5 years before getting married though)

Brian and Marie Posted: Mar 28, 2008 07:45 PM

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Hell No- Lost my virginity 12 years before getting merried (and had my fair share of partners) and i wouldn't change a thing!!!!!! DH liked that I had 'experience' and I felt the same about him!!

There was NO way I would've waited!!! You gotta test drive the car before buying it!!!

sugarkube4 Posted: Mar 28, 2008 08:00 PM

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Definitely didn't save myself for marriage..... and wouldn't have it any other way

oboediva31 Posted: Mar 28, 2008 09:14 PM

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I half waited. DH was my first but I wouldn't have sex with him until I knew we'd be getting married.

joshisgirl Posted: Mar 28, 2008 11:47 PM

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Posted by AeroJenn

I didnt. I'm glad I didnt. DH was my first, but we did it when we first started dating. It worked out great and we had years to experiment together.

same here!