pissing me off!!!
So ok quick background...
one of my BM's well she hates weddings, does not want one, hates being part of them, doesnt get them, but she is my oldest friend so i kinda was like it would mean alot if you were in my wedding...so she agreed...
2 days before the wedding...she calls me saying how she hates the dress..its heavy, hot, unflattering...wants to change at the reception...told her that defeats the purpous and so she said she will suck it up...
Day of the wedding, hates pictures smileing for them, the hot weather, gets a little drunk so in between the church and the recption she was good! smiling happy, not complaining..
at the wedding about an hour into it, she says she is leaving and going to the hotel cuz she has a migrane...(annoyed me a little) but at the same time...what ever she pulled the same thing at my sweet sixteen! fine...
After the wedding...47 days later, she is ignoring me, not answering my calls, texts, emails?
what the hell happend? im really annoyed! one of my other BM's is also friends with her so i asked her if she had spoken to her, maybe she was just really busy..shes like yeah ive been talking to her like usual...and if anything i thought it was my other BM that she would be mad at cuz she got waaay drunk, sick and was trying to hook up with one of the groomsmen (while having a boyfriend who was not at the wedding) tried brigning him back to their hotel room when BM #1 kicked him out! The only thing i can see is that she is mad at me cuz the GM was my friend! but umm he did nothing wrong and neither did i!
its like i just lost a freind that ive known since kindergarden! just stinks cuz i have no idea why!
sorry soo long! thanks for the vent!
one of my BM's well she hates weddings, does not want one, hates being part of them, doesnt get them, but she is my oldest friend so i kinda was like it would mean alot if you were in my wedding...so she agreed...
2 days before the wedding...she calls me saying how she hates the dress..its heavy, hot, unflattering...wants to change at the reception...told her that defeats the purpous and so she said she will suck it up...
Day of the wedding, hates pictures smileing for them, the hot weather, gets a little drunk so in between the church and the recption she was good! smiling happy, not complaining..
at the wedding about an hour into it, she says she is leaving and going to the hotel cuz she has a migrane...(annoyed me a little) but at the same time...what ever she pulled the same thing at my sweet sixteen! fine...
After the wedding...47 days later, she is ignoring me, not answering my calls, texts, emails?
what the hell happend? im really annoyed! one of my other BM's is also friends with her so i asked her if she had spoken to her, maybe she was just really busy..shes like yeah ive been talking to her like usual...and if anything i thought it was my other BM that she would be mad at cuz she got waaay drunk, sick and was trying to hook up with one of the groomsmen (while having a boyfriend who was not at the wedding) tried brigning him back to their hotel room when BM #1 kicked him out! The only thing i can see is that she is mad at me cuz the GM was my friend! but umm he did nothing wrong and neither did i!
its like i just lost a freind that ive known since kindergarden! just stinks cuz i have no idea why!
sorry soo long! thanks for the vent!
