Please tell me if Im being crazy...(sorry long)
Ok so one of my friends (was a bm) whom I have known forever is getting married in November (this engagement already broke once, they're trying again) and I am her matron of honor (I guess Im one of her best friends, and she is one of mine) her sister is her maid of honor (they dont get along at all) although I love her...she is not mentally stable (really) and thats ok but she she does things sometimes and I just dont know what to do because you have to deal with her a little differently than you would other people.
ok...
So 3 weeks ago she calls me and tells me I have to get my measurements and put a down payment on the bm dress. She calls me a hunderd times, sends me emails, etc. Ok...so the next day I go to have them taken (by a professional) and before I even get a chance to call the bridal shop they are calling me. Fine. I speak tot he lady and give her my measurements and she tells me she is going to order me a size 4. I tell her that Im a little worried about that and maybe we should order a size 6 instead. The lady goes over the measurements and the chart...and even takes out a size 4 from the same designer and measures the actual dress and she decides that the size 4 would be the better choice. So I give her my CC number and the order is in.
Ok so flash forward 3 weeks, my friend calls me to tell me that the order went in...the last bm paid and the order is in....um why the hell was i rushed! Anyway no big deal...then she tells me 'by the way I changed your order to a size 6'
What?
I said, 'Amanda why would you do that? I spoke to the lady and we settled on the size 4, its going to fit perfectly...I thought maybe I wouldnt have to alter the dress too much...now I am for sure going to pay at leat $70 on alterations'...and she says, 'Its not a big deal ill give you the $70, and its better safe than sorry, and the lady is an idiot we already had an issue with her, its better for the dress to be a little big than small, and plus Susan (another bm) tried on the dress in her size and her boobs were spilling out i dont want that'..I say 'Susans boobs are three times the size of mine!!'
I really dont think she should have made that decision without me. I know its her wedding but its my dress, im wearing it, im paying for it...and she should have talked to me first!!
I sent her an email expressing her I feel and she replies: 'I dont agree, Its no that serious, Its just one size up.'
Im going to kill her. Im always patient with her because she has alot of issues...but I cant always do it
ok...
So 3 weeks ago she calls me and tells me I have to get my measurements and put a down payment on the bm dress. She calls me a hunderd times, sends me emails, etc. Ok...so the next day I go to have them taken (by a professional) and before I even get a chance to call the bridal shop they are calling me. Fine. I speak tot he lady and give her my measurements and she tells me she is going to order me a size 4. I tell her that Im a little worried about that and maybe we should order a size 6 instead. The lady goes over the measurements and the chart...and even takes out a size 4 from the same designer and measures the actual dress and she decides that the size 4 would be the better choice. So I give her my CC number and the order is in.
Ok so flash forward 3 weeks, my friend calls me to tell me that the order went in...the last bm paid and the order is in....um why the hell was i rushed! Anyway no big deal...then she tells me 'by the way I changed your order to a size 6'
What?
I said, 'Amanda why would you do that? I spoke to the lady and we settled on the size 4, its going to fit perfectly...I thought maybe I wouldnt have to alter the dress too much...now I am for sure going to pay at leat $70 on alterations'...and she says, 'Its not a big deal ill give you the $70, and its better safe than sorry, and the lady is an idiot we already had an issue with her, its better for the dress to be a little big than small, and plus Susan (another bm) tried on the dress in her size and her boobs were spilling out i dont want that'..I say 'Susans boobs are three times the size of mine!!'
I really dont think she should have made that decision without me. I know its her wedding but its my dress, im wearing it, im paying for it...and she should have talked to me first!!
I sent her an email expressing her I feel and she replies: 'I dont agree, Its no that serious, Its just one size up.'
Im going to kill her. Im always patient with her because she has alot of issues...but I cant always do it
