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Prior to your wedding did you have to have a 'talk' with anyone?
nrvbrd Posted: Mar 08, 2004 02:09 PM+
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Prior to your wedding did you have to have a 'talk' with anyone?

We can happily say that we did not have any negative experiences with anyone at our wedding , nor did we have to warn people to be on their best behavior.

Unfortunately we cannot say the same about some friends of ours who are getting married in a couple of months.

They have about a handful of people who are known to act up at events- getting drunk and passing out, a couple who argues ALL the time among other things. They plan on having a conversation with each of these people to tell them to be on their best behavior.

Did any of you go through this?
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wacky Posted: Mar 08, 2004 02:10 PM+
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Re: Prior to your wedding did you have to have a 'talk' with anyone?

We had to speak to my dad. Its a long story
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ChristineC68 Posted: Mar 08, 2004 02:11 PM+
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Re: Prior to your wedding did you have to have a 'talk' with anyone?

We had concerns about one of our guests. DH's aunt & uncle were prepared to handle any situation if one arose. Fortunately, none did.
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yabbobay Posted: Mar 08, 2004 02:17 PM+
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Re: Prior to your wedding did you have to have a 'talk' with anyone?


Posted by wacky

We had to speak to my dad. Its a long story




I wish we had to mine...Noone knew - but he was piss a ss drunk...he smelled so bad during our dance I was trying to push away...he doesn't remember most of it

so for my sisters wedding I told the maitre d to make sure he gets watered down drinks
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wacky Posted: Mar 08, 2004 02:19 PM+
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Re: Prior to your wedding did you have to have a 'talk' with anyone?


Posted by yabbobay


Posted by wacky

We had to speak to my dad. Its a long story




I wish we had to mine...Noone knew - but he was piss a ss drunk...he smelled so bad during our dance I was trying to push away...he doesn't remember most of it

so for my sisters wedding I told the maitre d to make sure he gets watered down drinks


Sad really sad. We spoke to my dad about not acting like a cave man like he usually does
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shamma Posted: Mar 08, 2004 02:52 PM+
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Re: Prior to your wedding did you have to have a 'talk' with anyone?

my aunt avoided it by coming by herself, her husband cannot handle his liquor, she said girl I don't want anyone to spoil your day, so he stays home
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HeatherandNick Posted: Mar 08, 2004 04:01 PM+
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Re: Prior to your wedding did you have to have a 'talk' with anyone?

lets just say as I was getting into the limo to go home, the cops pulled up at my reception hall

Bad at the time, but we laugh about it now. Thankfully this was not a family member, but a friends boyfriend
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janwinterbridejoy Posted: Mar 08, 2004 05:35 PM+
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Re: Prior to your wedding did you have to have a 'talk' with anyone?

my mom had to have a conversation with my sister and also with my other sisters boyfriend. my sister was in the the wedding party and even though she had been given the 'talk' but she still showed her boobs to my groomsman and got so drunk she fell a few time son the dance floor. luckily i didnt know or notice any of things untill after the wedding. but i warned all of my friends and family to keep a look out fo rmy sister and they werent shocked at her bahavior although i was embarassed
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karen32 Posted: Mar 08, 2004 06:27 PM+
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Re: Prior to your wedding did you have to have a 'talk' with anyone?

my SIL (DH's sister) has a very bad habit of causing drama whereever she goes - DH's brother and his GF kept an eye on her all night and everytime she even remotely tried something, my BIL was all over her.
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swags1016 Posted: Mar 08, 2004 06:53 PM+
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