ok, maybe im weird but i feel like i want to be with DH all of the time. I havent been out with just the girls in a long time. Even if i do go with the girls i always have DH meet me at some point. I mean DH is totally cool with me going out with the girls, he thinks i should more like before we were married. it just seems like i miss him when im not with him. But he doesnt mind meeting me either. He likes hanging with the girls. It makes him look like THE MAN! lol lol lol (joke)
Q1. Do u girls do this?
Q2. How often are you out with the girls now that you are married?
Q3. AM I NUTS???? lol
MLAngelo
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Its hard for me to answer since DH works and stays in CT two to three nights a week, so when he is around I don't want to go elsewhere but I am without him quite often.
BarbieGrl10
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LOL! V I was JUST saying the same thing to Raquel!!!!!
I need to go out more.... WEEEEEEEE need to go out! PLs????
Summertimegal424
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well i kinda have the opposite problem at this time, we rarely ever see eachother, we have both been SOOO busy w/ work and him w/ school and work and now with this puppy, its like another full time job, sooo we dont get nearly has 'us' time anymore...but we try to plan things once and awhile.
but the majority of the time when we hang out w/ friends its together, its rare lately me for me to hang w/ the girls.
i go over a bff during the on season and we watch 90210 and melrose together, thats about it
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well my DH works nights mostly and his weeks flip flop as far as his schedule - week 1 he's working M, T nights, off W, TH, working F, SA, S nights. Week 2 off M, T, working W, TH nights, & off F, SA, S.
even though up until this past week, since we've been married Ive been unemployed & at home 99% of the time unless I have dr's or dentist appt on LI. Maybe if he had a normal work schedule I wouldnt miss him as much as I do when he works, but I really do miss him.
On the flip side - I have very few GF's in the area. I am no longer speaking w/ my MOH (long story) so it's not like I have anyone Im close enough with to just call me up & say let's do something...
I would enjoy a girls night out once in a while - or even a girls day out. I am hoping to make a lot more of the GTG's through LIW this year and make some new friends - so even if I have to travel once in a while for a GTG - I'd be happy to go!
Dont know if this fully answers the ?'s - but I HTH in some way!
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I talk about this with DH a lot... We are trying to have a girls night and guys night out once a month... and to try and do it on the same night... like a thursday or friday..But its hard... but we try. So like tomorrow we are both gonna be out... and we made a private late night date for when we get home... (if ya know what I mean)
And then having like a couples night... with other couples... - Thats proving to be hard... we have a lot of single friends... BOOOO (just kidding)
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we usually all hang out together..but i think i go out with the girls just a smuch as before we got married
LadyDuda81509
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well lately it seems like all my girlfriends are extremely busy, my best friend just had a baby in september so trying to find a time to meet up with her seems impossible!
we do meet for lunch alot which kinda works out cuz that would be a time when i normally dont see dh obvi cuz we are both at work...
but i mean i do the same thing!! i LOVE hanging out with my girls! but I LOVE hanging out with DH too! so if i have the both at the same time! im the happiest girl in the world!! lol
ps...you are NOT nuts! you love him and wanna spend time all your time with him! duh thats natural!!
its ok to have a girls night every now and then! i try to do this everytime i can actually get my girls together!
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at first I was going to say I still go out with the girls a lot but realize mostly we do couples things - I still do see my GFs though but DH and I have been together a lot lately and it's been nice - up until the holidays it felt like we never saw each other - i was gone every week for work and he was working AND finishing up his masters. .I am not looking forward to traveling again - it is so nice to be home!
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I do still hang out with the girls - Tuesday night two of my BMs and I went out to dinner - but I always miss DH when I go. And then I'll think about not going, until I get there and realize how much fun I am having!
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I'm with ya! I love my free time and I want to spend it with DH and then with our families.
I have a REALLY hard time scheduling girls time since we've been married, it happens once per month at best...the same for him. We want to do it more but for both of us, our favorite place in the world right now is at home together with our dog. I guess that's not really a problem is it?
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Brad and I spend most of our time together and when we are with friends it is couple friends...to be honest, I dont have a whole lot of single girl friends to begin with so I never really had girls nights. Most of our friends are engaged or married so we all go out together...i understand what you mean about wanting to spend all of your free time together though Vick!
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I don't really 'go out' with my girlfriends - we usually just go to each other's houses. If we do go out it's to dinner, not bar hopping or anything like that!
DH hangs out with the same circle of friends that I do - I'm friends with the wives/girlfriends and he's friends with the guys.
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I barely go out with any of my girls anymore since I Have been married. Dh says I should spend more time with them. I used to go out with my girls all the time before I was married even during my engagement stages. I miss DH all the time when I am out and then I rush home to see him..I don't know why I feel like this..It wasn't like that before we were married! So I understand what you are going through..I am going through the same thing!!!
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I don't really have girls nights out much. Last week I went out to dinner with my 2 besties after work but I was home by 9 And I work in the city and took the train home.....uggg I'm a loser!! I love spending any free time with DH. We do go out with other couples. And have people over. But we don't even really go out too much since we're saving money.
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I go out with my girls without DH almost every weekend. I live in the city and all of my friends are single, so it is much easier for me to go out. I love doing this. DH and I spend so much time together during the week after work every evening and usually every Friday night and weekend days, so Saturday night I like to go out with the girls. Also, some Sundays I go out with my friends for brunch or mani/pedi since DH is glued to the tv for football.
That being said...I don't think there is anything wrong with you wanting to be with DH all the time. He is like your best friend right? It is healthy to go out with friends and be apart sometimes, but you have to do what makes you feel good. You have the find the healthy balance.
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Posted by BarbieGrl10
LOL! V I was JUST saying the same thing to Raquel!!!!!
I need to go out more.... WEEEEEEEE need to go out! PLs????
I cant wait to see my lovelies in 2 weeks!!! YAY
B - seriously Mike & Joe are going to have an ear full when we start chatting its been way toooo long!
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Posted by MrsDtoBe09
I don't really 'go out' with my girlfriends - we usually just go to each other's houses. If we do go out it's to dinner, not bar hopping or anything like that!
DH hangs out with the same circle of friends that I do - I'm friends with the wives/girlfriends and he's friends with the guys.
Yes, we usually go out for dinner brunch etc. We are kinda over the bar hopping too. Im too old Ang. lol lol lol
thats nice that u have the same circle. We have two different circles but thankfully I get along with all the wives of his friends (we actually became close) & he loves my friends & the husbands all get along as well. So its all good. lol
its just i realizedi havent done the just girls in a loooong tme. When we used to so often. I guess things do change. Funny thing is i dont miss it. I love hanging with DH we always have so much fun together.
