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JennNicole Posted:

question Will poll

When you met a guy bfr you were married or when your single freinds meet a guy about how long would they wait to sleep with him?


This is a question that has been making me about single girls. I have a few friends that are still single or about to be single

I am asking b/c I am shocked at how soon women are willing to jump in the sheets so quickly.
Maybe things are changing
bluegreen08 Posted:

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FH and I waited just over a year, but we started dating when I was newly 18. Some of my friends have slept with people right away, others have waited.

I think the older you get and/or the more people you have slept with the shorter you will wait.

Edit: sorry, i didnt realized I clicked on NW... thought this was 09... sorry
JennNicole Posted:

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Posted by bluegreen08

FH and I waited just over a year, but we started dating when I was newly 18. Some of my friends have slept with people right away, others have waited.

I think the older you get and/or the more people you have slept with the shorter you will wait.

Edit: sorry, i didnt realized I clicked on NW... thought this was 09... sorry



hahahah no worries at least you responded and was honest.

Also this really is not a NW question it is a general question that I am wondering about.
kns11 Posted:

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For me and my galfriends it really depends on the guy and how into him we are. We tend to tease a lot rather than get frisky. I waited 6 months before Scott and I went at it. I would have waited longer but I new he was in it for the long run.
vmystique33 Posted:

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I always waited 1yr - 1yr1/2

except DH 2wks
JennNicole Posted:

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Posted by kns11

For me and my galfriends it really depends on the guy and how into him we are. We tend to tease a lot rather than get frisky. I waited 6 months before Scott and I went at it. I would have waited longer but I new he was in it for the long run.



That is great WOW 6 mo huh? Mine was 3. I am just soo shocked at what the girls tell me these days. I get the whole 'tease' bit. I am starting to think there are less girls out there that really kind of wait a bit.
Last night I really got disgusted, It was my BIL bday and they were out at a club resteraunt . I met up w/them l8r b/c I had to pick them up and my DH told me that 4 girls propositoned both him and my BIL for the night for a little bowchinkinaWow wow.

That made me ask my GF what they are doing when they met men out they like. I donno.
JennNicole Posted:

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Posted by vmystique33

I always waited 1yr - 1yr1/2

except DH 2wks



OH wait Lets NOT go there about the DH!!! Pleaz!
vmystique33 Posted:

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Posted by gemmifer


Posted by vmystique33

I always waited 1yr - 1yr1/2

except DH 2wks



OH wait Lets NOT go there about the DH!!! Pleaz!




Hey at least we married them In a sense we just knew
kns11 Posted:

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Posted by gemmifer

Posted by kns11
For me and my galfriends it really depends on the guy and how into him we are. We tend to tease a lot rather than get frisky. I waited 6 months before Scott and I went at it. I would have waited longer but I new he was in it for the long run.


That is great WOW 6 mo huh? Mine was 3. I am just soo shocked at what the girls tell me these days. I get the whole 'tease' bit. I am starting to think there are less girls out there that really kind of wait a bit.
Last night I really got disgusted, It was my BIL bday and they were out at a club resteraunt . I met up w/them l8r b/c I had to pick them up and my DH told me that 4 girls propositoned both him and my BIL for the night for a little bowchinkinaWow wow.

That made me ask my GF what they are doing when they met men out they like. I donno.


Truth be told I was head over heels and really concerned with being intimate for a variety of reasons (since before him I did not believe in love). There are gals who get a real kick out of going after married men. So sometimes guys are not doing anything but wearing their wedding ring.
thelastresort Posted:

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I can't really answer your poll b/c it really depends on who we are talking about. I have friends who will make a guy wait forever. When I was single I had a different mentality. I think I had more of a guy mentality. Or very much a la SATC Samantha. But that's me. It's not for everyone.

vmystique33 Posted:

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Posted by thelastresort

I can't really answer your poll b/c it really depends on who we are talking about. I have friends who will make a guy wait forever. When I was single I had a different mentality. I think I had more of a guy mentality. Or very much a la SATC Samantha. But that's me. It's not for everyone.





thelastresort Posted:

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Posted by vmystique33


Posted by thelastresort

I can't really answer your poll b/c it really depends on who we are talking about. I have friends who will make a guy wait forever. When I was single I had a different mentality. I think I had more of a guy mentality. Or very much a la SATC Samantha. But that's me. It's not for everyone.








Hey, she asked...I was being honest.
vmystique33 Posted:

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Posted by thelastresort


Posted by vmystique33


Posted by thelastresort

I can't really answer your poll b/c it really depends on who we are talking about. I have friends who will make a guy wait forever. When I was single I had a different mentality. I think I had more of a guy mentality. Or very much a la SATC Samantha. But that's me. It's not for everyone.








Hey, she asked...I was being honest.



You definately were
JennNicole Posted:

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Posted by thelastresort


Posted by vmystique33


Posted by thelastresort

I can't really answer your poll b/c it really depends on who we are talking about. I have friends who will make a guy wait forever. When I was single I had a different mentality. I think I had more of a guy mentality. Or very much a la SATC Samantha. But that's me. It's not for everyone.








Hey, she asked...I was being honest.



you answered me just not my poll.
PreshusSmurf Posted:

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I was never the type of girl who had a rule for how long to wait, it really depended on the guy and what my frame of mind was at that particular point ....

I did answer the poll with a general timeframe though
Summer07Bride Posted:

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If you were to poll my friends you would see it is all over the place. Some people make them wait while others jump in right away. I personally made DH wait a few months.

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