Really Pissed Off!!

***?? My brother, whom I really have not been speaking with lately because everytime I do, makes a snide hurtful comment about something. So he asks what I am doing and I tell him that I am finally writing my wedding review for LIW (coming shortly ) and he says - what else are you writing having to do with the wedding? So it seems quite obvious what he's talking about, so I say - well if you're talking about the Thank You notes - right now I am having issues with my pictures and can't even pick out one for the TY's and until I can, the TY's are on hold. Mind you, I got married August 1 so it's barely two months!! So he has the NERVE to tell me - because he knows oh so much about weddings and etiquette, I'm sure, that I am Remiss in not sending them out already!!!! I tell him from what I hear from other people, the average is between 3-6 months and they will certainly be sent out well before 6 months! I am really pissed at him, but now I am bugging out because I am wondering if anyone has been making comments about the thank you notes!!

With regard to thank you notes, you can never win.

Some people will say that 5 months is too long, others will say that 1 monrh is too short. Really, no matter WHEN you send them, there will be some idiot who gets offended with the timing...

When my brother pisses me off, I just tell him to shut the hell up and then we get over it

i wouldnt let it bother you get them out when you can. i got mine out just under 3 months and i still receieved comments from people so you cant win either way. most people understand that it takes time to get them out.

Holy moly - what a petty thing for him to say.
Don't people have lives to live??

I felt bad about my TY's being 5 mos late but no one said anything to me about it. Maybe that's not good either but ya know what? I don't care! They're out and I actually got a few emails about how lovely the picture was!

This really bothers me that people have the nerve to complain - usually unmarried people, or MEN who don't write them out anyway!

I've rarely, if ever, received a thank you note prior to the 6 month mark...and I JUST got one the other day for a wedding I went to in Sept of 2003!

I sent mine out 3 1/2 months after my wedding and I thought I was a superstar! Yet I'm getting comments like, 'Oh, so you did a picture, THAT's why you had to wait so long to send them out?' Um, HELLO, how could you NOT be familiar with the fact that thank you notes are usually with a picture from the wedding?

WHat annoys me is that everything has become 'expected' and with judgement! Thank you notes are no more EXPECTED than a Tip is supposed to be. There are healthy levels of expectation but people take it way too far! I think it is poor etiquette to nag someone about thier poor etiquette!

I have a friend who took 10 months to get her TYs out..and all I said when I opened it was:
'OH! Cool, a beautiful picture of our friends' ...not 'WHAT A LAZY B@#%!'

Why are people so mean and judgemental!!!

OK..vent done.

I didn't even order mine yet.

I just started mine