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Regret plans?

Original post by Toucan311

UGH I always make plans to go out and then regret it and wish I could sit home on my couch!!

I'm totally DONE w/the bar scene, but I have to go out for my friends bday tonite.

Anyone else rather sit home in pjs and a hot chocolate than go to a gay bar?
Toucan311 Posted:

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Posted by Ayne11

It's like Bowling - you never wanna go but have so much fun when you're there!

The bar scene makes me feel so old now, the 21 year olds look like babies - did we ever look like that???



I know, I don't want to be the old girl there who looks like she's trying to relive her youth.
Ayne11 Posted:

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Posted by Mimacat


Posted by Ayne11

It's like Bowling - you never wanna go but have so much fun when you're there!

The bar scene makes me feel so old now, the 21 year olds look like babies - did we ever look like that???



I know, I don't want to be the old girl there who looks like she's trying to relive her youth.



Hush! You don't look your age (like that call back?)
Mici n KC Posted:

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Posted by ant n tilde

I am ugly right now so I decided that I wont go out until I stop being ugly. . .but its going to take a while LOL

but yeah i know what you mean!



lol I really know where you're coming from. Even though you are NOT ugly. I told DH I can't go out in public until I'm not fat anymore.



Well thank you. But I used to be pretty. Then I gained weight - fine I could deal with that.

But then I started breaking out like I am 14! ALL OVER MY FACE! And no one can stop it

and to add to the fun, my hair is dead too.



Who doesnt break out their whole life and then just STARTS when they are 26?!



MEE!!!!!!!!!!! i never had pimples and started breaking out in mid 20's

And i know exactly how you feel with not wanting to go out until im pretty i feel so ugh lately and fat. Its like i dress with bigger clothes and then i feel like the idiot being at a bar or club dressed like this, i hate it



LOL I try to cover it up by being 'trendy' and getting one of those larger tops but then when i get there i am like what the heck am i wearing?!



thats what i do. Last week i wore this top that ties on top but in the back, and comes a bit loose and is a little long, wore that with tights and boots. I like the top alot but i was so HOTT in it. It was 3/4 sleeves but wool lol.




I feel like I wear the same clothes all the time bc I hate the way some of my old clothes fit, aside from the fact that they are too tight now. I refuse to buy new clothes that will be too big when I lose the weight.
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by MikeandJess


Posted by ant n tilde

I am ugly right now so I decided that I wont go out until I stop being ugly. . .but its going to take a while LOL

but yeah i know what you mean!



lol I really know where you're coming from. Even though you are NOT ugly. I told DH I can't go out in public until I'm not fat anymore.



Well thank you. But I used to be pretty. Then I gained weight - fine I could deal with that.

But then I started breaking out like I am 14! ALL OVER MY FACE! And no one can stop it

and to add to the fun, my hair is dead too.



Who doesnt break out their whole life and then just STARTS when they are 26?!



MEE!!!!!!!!!!! i never had pimples and started breaking out in mid 20's

And i know exactly how you feel with not wanting to go out until im pretty i feel so ugh lately and fat. Its like i dress with bigger clothes and then i feel like the idiot being at a bar or club dressed like this, i hate it



LOL I try to cover it up by being 'trendy' and getting one of those larger tops but then when i get there i am like what the heck am i wearing?!



thats what i do. Last week i wore this top that ties on top but in the back, and comes a bit loose and is a little long, wore that with tights and boots. I like the top alot but i was so HOTT in it. It was 3/4 sleeves but wool lol.




I feel like I wear the same clothes all the time bc I hate the way some of my old clothes fit, aside from the fact that they are too tight now. I refuse to buy new clothes that will be too big when I lose the weight.



that is what i do too. I hate it bc when i went out last week i ended up wearing something ive worn a few times recently and i just felt like ugh i keep wearing the same stuff. I know dh doesnt care but still when we go out i'd rather him seeing me look different and nice. And yes most of my clothes dont fit now and i refuse to buy new clothes too

I HATE THIS!!! i do wanna go out, and do things. I dont want to already be like ugh no i'd rather stay home. I hate that ive been like this lately. We're still young, its the time to still do stuff. WHat are we gonna do then when we're in our 40's or how about when we have kids.
Mici n KC Posted:

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that is what i do too. I hate it bc when i went out last week i ended up wearing something ive worn a few times recently and i just felt like ugh i keep wearing the same stuff. I know dh doesnt care but still when we go out i'd rather him seeing me look different and nice. And yes most of my clothes dont fit now and i refuse to buy new clothes too

I HATE THIS!!! i do wanna go out, and do things. I dont want to already be like ugh no i'd rather stay home. I hate that ive been like this lately. We're still young, its the time to still do stuff. WHat are we gonna do then when we're in our 40's or how about when we have kids.



At least when we have kids we have a legitimate excuse for not going out!
SB7308 Posted:

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wow we are a bunch of old wives



j/k!!
Espo22 Posted:

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that is what i do too. I hate it bc when i went out last week i ended up wearing something ive worn a few times recently and i just felt like ugh i keep wearing the same stuff. I know dh doesnt care but still when we go out i'd rather him seeing me look different and nice. And yes most of my clothes dont fit now and i refuse to buy new clothes too

I HATE THIS!!! i do wanna go out, and do things. I dont want to already be like ugh no i'd rather stay home. I hate that ive been like this lately. We're still young, its the time to still do stuff. WHat are we gonna do then when we're in our 40's or how about when we have kids.



At least when we have kids we have a legitimate excuse for not going out!



ahhh i need to stop. Its not that i dont want to go out, its just that i feel so blah and that makes me not want to go out. But thats it, this is ridiculous lol. I dont want to feel that whole part of my life is gone, of course not partying all the time but just to get out and have fun here and there.
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by SB7308

wow we are a bunch of old wives



j/k!!



we are i dont want to become this lol.

DH was so depressed that he turned 30, but they say youre only as old as you feel, maybe if we feel young again it will be better.
snwb08 Posted:

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i hate going to bars. I'd rather go to dinner and/or some restaurant and just drink wine and sit at the bar with friends. Plus in bars I don't really drink beer b/c it makes me full and gross so if it's a divey bar they look at me like i have 10 heads when i order wine or an extra dirty martini.

we go to this one bar after class and i ***** the entire time, like we are too old for this place, we are NOT in college anymore!!
ant n tilde Posted:

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that is what i do too. I hate it bc when i went out last week i ended up wearing something ive worn a few times recently and i just felt like ugh i keep wearing the same stuff. I know dh doesnt care but still when we go out i'd rather him seeing me look different and nice. And yes most of my clothes dont fit now and i refuse to buy new clothes too

I HATE THIS!!! i do wanna go out, and do things. I dont want to already be like ugh no i'd rather stay home. I hate that ive been like this lately. We're still young, its the time to still do stuff. WHat are we gonna do then when we're in our 40's or how about when we have kids.



At least when we have kids we have a legitimate excuse for not going out!



ahhh i need to stop. Its not that i dont want to go out, its just that i feel so blah and that makes me not want to go out. But thats it, this is ridiculous lol. I dont want to feel that whole part of my life is gone, of course not partying all the time but just to get out and have fun here and there.



its not even about being old, LOL
i just love when we go out with these other two couples - we always joke around about how we have only seen each other in sweat pants for the past two years besides weddings. . . and we have the greatest time - i would just rather do that . . . and trust me we are definitely NOT mature when we hang out LOL
snwb08 Posted:

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Posted by Espo22


Posted by SB7308

wow we are a bunch of old wives



j/k!!



we are i dont want to become this lol.

DH was so depressed that he turned 30, but they say youre only as old as you feel, maybe if we feel young again it will be better.



i'm going to be 32 in two weeks and it's totally unreal to me that i'm that old but i don't feel it or anything... i feel like life keeps getting better the older I get - we make more money and have more of a sense of values I think. But I still wake up and am sh!t i'm 31?? I will always be 27 in my brain
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by ant n tilde


Posted by Espo22


Posted by Mici n KC


Posted by Espo22



that is what i do too. I hate it bc when i went out last week i ended up wearing something ive worn a few times recently and i just felt like ugh i keep wearing the same stuff. I know dh doesnt care but still when we go out i'd rather him seeing me look different and nice. And yes most of my clothes dont fit now and i refuse to buy new clothes too

I HATE THIS!!! i do wanna go out, and do things. I dont want to already be like ugh no i'd rather stay home. I hate that ive been like this lately. We're still young, its the time to still do stuff. WHat are we gonna do then when we're in our 40's or how about when we have kids.



At least when we have kids we have a legitimate excuse for not going out!



ahhh i need to stop. Its not that i dont want to go out, its just that i feel so blah and that makes me not want to go out. But thats it, this is ridiculous lol. I dont want to feel that whole part of my life is gone, of course not partying all the time but just to get out and have fun here and there.



its not even about being old, LOL
i just love when we go out with these other two couples - we always joke around about how we have only seen each other in sweat pants for the past two years besides weddings. . . and we have the greatest time - i would just rather do that . . . and trust me we are definitely NOT mature when we hang out LOL



yeah just to get out and do stuff. I dont mean going to just bars and clubs and especially not places where probably everyone is in their 20's. But dinner's, lounge's and just something lol.

MikeandJess Posted:

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Posted by Mici n KC

I feel like I wear the same clothes all the time bc I hate the way some of my old clothes fit, aside from the fact that they are too tight now. I refuse to buy new clothes that will be too big when I lose the weight.



yup, me too. And I dont' want to shop for new ones because then I have to buy bigger sizes, haha. DH did the laundry last week and he shrunk one of my favorite sweaters which is only one of my favorites because it still fit! I was livid
Toucan311 Posted:

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Posted by Mimacat


Posted by Ayne11

It's like Bowling - you never wanna go but have so much fun when you're there!

The bar scene makes me feel so old now, the 21 year olds look like babies - did we ever look like that???



I know, I don't want to be the old girl there who looks like she's trying to relive her youth.



Hush! You don't look your age (like that call back?)



ChristineAaron08 Posted:

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yeah, i usually do that to, but then i go out and have a good time anyway.

Kimbalina Posted:

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I haven't gone out in a while.. last month some time.. but I know what you mean.. some times staying in and doing noting is GREAT!!! I like to do that especially in the winter!

RockysGirl Posted:

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Posted by Mimacat

UGH I always make plans to go out and then regret it and wish I could sit home on my couch!!



I do that all the time!! I'll even be looking forward to something UNTIL the day of. Like the Superbowl - I was so hyped about going out and doing whatever, but when the day came, i just wanted to relax in my sweats and pig out with DH. lol. I definitely prefer to relax at home than to be out partying. I've always kind of been that way though.
lizzie217 Posted:

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I think winter plays a big part...were not tan..its cold out...I know I dread the hassle of finding a cute outfit, doing my hair makeup....its exhausting BUT once Im out I never want to go home haha...
Toucan311 Posted:

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Well, its 246ish and im drunk and had a good time. we ended up goign to the bay shore nut instead. good times. yAR.

SFAR89 Posted:

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Glad you had fun lol 2:45 haha nice

I was getting my hair done yesterday and the guy asked me what my plans were for the weekend. I told him I was making dinner for the family and he asked me what I was making. I told him Brisket and he said 'what's that'...I felt at that moment, that I had become an old lady :(

I would much rather stay at home than go to the bar, but once in a blue moon I get in the mood to go hang out with everyone.

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