should i be upset??? (kind along - SORRY!)

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Re: nevermind

Please talk to your friend about this. I almost lost a very good friend of mine because she also acted this way. She probably doesn't realize she is like this.

Good luck!

Re: nevermind

thanks....i feel like in some ways i made it this way by enabling it thorugh all those years, so it isn't her fault completely. I am just not so sure if i even care to try and fix it now - i'm at the point!

sorry to hear of your lost friend and thank you for the advice!

Re: should i be upset??? (kind along - SORRY!)

have you you thought that maybe she isnt trying to be a bad friend to you it might be that represent all the things she doesnt have in her life and it might be tough for her to see have happy you are. that might might have something to do with the sudden engagement after you wedding to someone that she told you she didnt even like that much

i think that you should talk to her it seems like you to shared a lot together and it would a shame to lose all that history between you too.
wedding. i wouldnt bring that up but maybe knowing that might be the case might make you understand her being the way she is a little more.

Re: should i be upset??? (kind along - SORRY!)

i have thought of that....but i guess i hoped that it wouldn't be it .....i think i will try to call her again but i have deicded that if she doens't call back this time then i am done for now (or so i say! )

Re: should i be upset??? (kind along - SORRY!)

i think its more then understandable you give it it one more try but if she doesnt call back i would pull back also and let her contact you when she is ready to talk. i speak from first hand exprience on this issue i lost a friend when i got engaged because she was still single and just couldnt be happy for me because it in her opnion was supposed to be her because she was the better catch lol.

Re: should i be upset??? (kind along - SORRY!)

I missed your post, but I hope it all works out....good luck!