I bought gifts for my boss and my colleague and I even brought in some food for the shower. So, I think they have no idea that I still feel pretty crappy about them completely ignoring my marriage.
2 of my other colleagues recently got engaged. While we were all milling around, someone else yelled out, 'oh, I hope you two get married at the same time so we can do a double bridal shower for you'.
My boss did not say a word. I left the room for a few minutes and then came back like nothing happened.
It was weird because afterward, we were talking about how our company is having open enrollment soon. I mentioned how I had wanted to add my husband on to my dental plan when we got back from our honeymoon, but I missed the cut off.
Then, my pregnant colleague said, 'oh, well, you need to have a qualifying event'
I was like, 'I DID...I GOT MARRIED'...
So, I guess no one really did notice that I got married over the summer...
Maribelle7777
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Re: So, I made it through my boss's baby shower...
Your co-workers seem like they are brain dead.
I wouldn't do sh*t for any of them anymore.
That sucks, sorry.
Monkeybride
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Re: So, I made it through my boss's baby shower...
You are a better person than I am.
But I have realized people just don't think sometimes. Even a card that everyone signed would mean something. I know how it feels