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medic6809 Posted:

Some people......

THANK GOD my wedding is over and I was an 07 bride........Some people are in for a rude awakening as to what REAL life is like. You know after the WEDDING and when your life isn't consumed with guest lists, flowers, and the 'perfect' day. Sorry...Vent Over

Brian and Marie Posted:

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Posted by medic6809

THANK GOD my wedding is over and I was an 07 bride........Some people are in for a rude awakening as to what REAL life is like. You know after the WEDDING and when your life isn't consumed with guest lists, flowers, and the 'perfect' day. Sorry...Vent Over



I'm lost...did I miss something

bettybcafe Posted:

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Im a little confused...whats wrong?

MJDoc12 Posted:

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me thinks she might be referring to some 08ers


honestly---hindsight is 20/20---and i'm sure 06ers thought the SAME THINGS about us when we were going thru our year---just as the 08ers will have the hindsight gift in 2009

its all relative
bettybcafe Posted:

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Posted by MJDoc12

me thinks she might be referring to some 08ers


honestly---hindsight is 20/20---and i'm sure 06ers thought the SAME THINGS about us when we were going thru our year---just as the 08ers will have the hindsight gift in 2009

its all relative

True
GraceAndAdam Posted:

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I think I know what you mean. Sometimes I look at the Brides helping Brides posts and laugh when I remember how obsessed I was with centerpieces, and favors, and blah, blah, blah... As fun as the planning was, now I look back and I'm relieved to be done so I can focus on real life. If I were to get married all over again, I'd hire a wedding planner - it would definitely be worth the money!

Aug07OFCbride Posted:

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Posted by bettybcafe


Posted by MJDoc12

me thinks she might be referring to some 08ers


honestly---hindsight is 20/20---and i'm sure 06ers thought the SAME THINGS about us when we were going thru our year---just as the 08ers will have the hindsight gift in 2009

its all relative

True

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yea. i remember being concerned with some things that were just silly now in retrospect. but when youre wrapped up in it, it can be a different story.
curiousgeorge Posted:

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I seriously agree.....I have friends and all they ever talk about is the ring, ring ring....cant wait to get 'THE RING' OKAYYYYY ....then its the....Cant wait to get that 5000k dress....dress....dress...I dont remember being LIKE THIS...lol I focused more on the relationship aspect...I was just happy to marry my dh!!! I still cant believe it happened!!! .

medic6809 Posted:

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Yes hindsight is 20/20 but even in the midst of planning I never acted the way some people are. I just think that some people are losing focus...this is 1 day. They are creating drama and hurt feelings over this, AND afte rthe wedding then what. Are people supposed to just say 'oh well she was in wedding phase.' It's not an act like a jerk free for all card. sorry it's a combo of BHB and 08........I swear they are getting worse and worse

PegaLega Posted:

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I totally agree, hindsight is 20/20 but during my planning there were things that upset me but they were valid...not silly things. I think that some brides get so caught up in the 'making it perfect' part and impressing people that they forget what its all about

Summer07Bride Posted:

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Posted by medic6809

THANK GOD my wedding is over and I was an 07 bride........Some people are in for a rude awakening as to what REAL life is like. You know after the WEDDING and when your life isn't consumed with guest lists, flowers, and the 'perfect' day. Sorry...Vent Over



I completely agree. Some people get too wrapped up in it. I was much more laid back about things and knew things woudl work on in the end.
DNicholes Posted:

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I think we should all remember that we were there not so long ago....

& even some 07ers had some ridiculous questions & concerns.

It happens....I wouldn't get annoyed about it.
cookiemonster Posted:

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I just remember about 3 months before my wedding getting SO bored with the whole planning process and lurking like crazy on the NW board wishing I could post here and just talk about something NORMAL.
luvabul Posted:

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agreed
B22 Posted:

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I don't see why you care so much.

let people be.

we were all a little loopy during the wedding process and maybe some people take things a little more seriously than others.

not my right to judge
kahlua716 Posted:

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Posted by Aug07OFCbride


Posted by bettybcafe


Posted by MJDoc12

me thinks she might be referring to some 08ers


honestly---hindsight is 20/20---and i'm sure 06ers thought the SAME THINGS about us when we were going thru our year---just as the 08ers will have the hindsight gift in 2009

its all relative

True

\

yea. i remember being concerned with some things that were just silly now in retrospect. but when youre wrapped up in it, it can be a different story.



Very true- this is why I spend most of my time on LIF now...I'm pretty much over the whole wedding thing- except that my sister is now planning her wedding for THIS july! So- I'm still a little wrapped up in it for her.
DrWho Posted:

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I'm all for being excited for the 5 weddings I've got coming up. I've always liked party planning though.

cindyandkevin Posted:

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Posted by MJDoc12

me thinks she might be referring to some 08ers


honestly---hindsight is 20/20---and i'm sure 06ers thought the SAME THINGS about us when we were going thru our year---just as the 08ers will have the hindsight gift in 2009

its all relative





And I'm sure the 05ers felt the same way about us!!
PeteysBride Posted:

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Posted by DNicholes

I think we should all remember that we were there not so long ago....

& even some 07ers had some ridiculous questions & concerns.

It happens....I wouldn't get annoyed about it.



Ditto. I remember PLENTY of Save it For Your Mama Bridezilla Drama going on with the 07 brides too..We all did it to some level.

I personally was pretty laid back and never threw any HUGE fits myself but I had the little snappies with some people close to me. It happens because you're STRESSED! Are there extremes? Of course, but I don't think stones should be cast. maybe YOU yourself never did what they are doing, but I wouldn't make a blanket statement about everyone because some of us have in the past fessed up to bridezilla moments.

Hindsight is 20/20. If it bugs you that much, just don't read it. Voila, irritation is over.
MeNBobs Posted:

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What is this about?? I'm nosey which thread inspired this?

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