Spinoff for the curios: Does your DH go to strip clubs?

MrsD71208 Posted: Dec 12, 2008 06:11 PM

Spinoff for the curios: Does your DH go to strip clubs?

Other than if it is for a bachelor party????

Butterfly123 Posted: Dec 12, 2008 06:13 PM

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He wants to go with me but he doesnt really care to go. I think hes gone twice in the 8 years weve been together. I dont mind if he does but he says he doesnt like giving women money to be hoes

nifheim Posted: Dec 12, 2008 06:24 PM

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I voted no - he hardly ever walks into one. He will go for a bday party or a bach party or like two years ago he went with his friend who was having a hard day and wanted to go but no alone (kinda odd but whatever.) I honestly don't care if he did once and a while but I would have issues if it was a weekly thing.

jtgarsik Posted: Dec 12, 2008 06:27 PM

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nope. he doesn't go even if it's for a bachelor party. never been his thing..he stays away(and by his own choice which makes me happy lol)

Espo22 Posted: Dec 12, 2008 07:34 PM

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i answered in the other thread but no its not something he does often lol. SInce we've been together he has gone like 3x. One time for his own BP, and also another time for his friends bachelor party but that one he called me to pick him up 15 mins after he got there. Then another time in the beginning of our relationship, him and his friends all went to philly and all the guys went.

I have no issue with it. If its something a guy does ALL the time then that is different but for friends bp's i dont expect him not to go. Once in a blue moon and for certain occasions, i am ok with it. He used to go more often when he was single but now he doesnt think its right to go often lol so once in a blue moon is fine.

I went to a female strip club for my own BP so i wouldnt tell him he cant do it when i went myself

I also dont always go by guys who say they hate it. I knew a guy who hated it and never wanted to go when his friends went but yeah he was a big cheater lmao, he just didnt care to pay for a girl to dance he'd rather call up girls or go to a club and pick up a girl where he can fool around for free . Then another man i know too thinks strip clubs are disgusting and if you hear him talk you think awwww how nice, but yeah he cheats too so for me if a guy says that it means nothing. Oh yeah and i wont mention how i know of guys who go but NEVER tell their gf's

luvabul Posted: Dec 12, 2008 08:39 PM

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nope he doesnt go at alll...

Mrs. V 2008 Posted: Dec 12, 2008 10:17 PM

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Nope not usually..We used to go together in the past..but not anymore..he's not into them

ant n tilde Posted: Dec 12, 2008 10:44 PM

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I am pretty sure that DH has only gone for bachelor parties

MrsJ08 Posted: Dec 13, 2008 10:31 AM

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No he actually finds it disgusting. I didn't believe him when he said it cuz I thought all guys like it but he really doesnt care of it...Thank G-d

lizzie217 Posted: Dec 13, 2008 12:10 PM

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No...even before we were together it wasnt his thing...thinks its a waste of money I guess

TommysWife08 Posted: Dec 13, 2008 12:31 PM

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we go together

Autumn08 Posted: Dec 13, 2008 01:04 PM

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No.

He didn't even go for a bach party.

For a bach party I wouldn't mind but otherwise it's just a waste of time and money and it would be insulting to me.

Espo22 Posted: Dec 13, 2008 02:02 PM

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Posted by TM2008

we go together

ive told dh to go together but he doesnt want to, he says its weird, i dont get him lol. I know other couples who have gone together.

lizzie217 Posted: Dec 13, 2008 03:29 PM

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Posted by Espo22

Posted by TM2008

we go together

ive told dh to go together but he doesnt want to, he says its weird, i dont get him lol. I know other couples who have gone together.

Denise..I told DH the same thing and he said no also.... My DH is much more easily embarrassed then me...is yours??

TommysWife08 Posted: Dec 13, 2008 07:45 PM

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Posted by Espo22

Posted by TM2008

we go together

ive told dh to go together but he doesnt want to, he says its weird, i dont get him lol. I know other couples who have gone together.

yeah i guess i'm just very open with all that stuff... i mean, lets face it, id much rather see an attractive girl half naked than a random guy - ya know??!

other than us going together, he doesnt realy go at all... once in a while they will go for someone's bday, but thats about it... i realy do enjoy going with DH tho... we kinda bond lol

mRm2008 Posted: Dec 14, 2008 08:34 AM

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DH went w/ my MOH's hubby and some guy friends a few years ago. He went golfing for his bachelor party LOL. He never really got into them I guess - fine with me!

Espo22 Posted: Dec 14, 2008 12:16 PM

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Posted by lizzie217

Posted by Espo22

Posted by TM2008

we go together

ive told dh to go together but he doesnt want to, he says its weird, i dont get him lol. I know other couples who have gone together.

Denise..I told DH the same thing and he said no also.... My DH is much more easily embarrassed then me...is yours??

Yeah I told DH I would buy him a lapdance and he said NO WAY!!! when i asked why he said he would feel weird and yeah embarassed lol. Ive seen the lapdances given before and its not a big deal, not like i was gonna pay hundreds of dollars to get him a special lapdance lol

Espo22 Posted: Dec 14, 2008 12:22 PM

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Posted by TM2008

Posted by Espo22

Posted by TM2008

we go together

ive told dh to go together but he doesnt want to, he says its weird, i dont get him lol. I know other couples who have gone together.

yeah i guess i'm just very open with all that stuff... i mean, lets face it, id much rather see an attractive girl half naked than a random guy - ya know??!

other than us going together, he doesnt realy go at all... once in a while they will go for someone's bday, but thats about it... i realy do enjoy going with DH tho... we kinda bond lol

thats great though. And yeah not like DH and his friends go hey lets just go to strip clubs for fun. He goes if its a bp and thats about it. Like i said he has gone 3x while he has been with me, and the one time i picked him up, he wanted just to walk in with the guys bc they were getting some special and guaranteed a certain amount of guys, i was supposed to pick him up right after he walked in and i got lost, and infact he called to see where i was and said he'll just walk out and wait outside and when i got there he was waiting outside already