tell me truly girls...how has the 'transition' been?

Original post by JessicaM.

Apr 28, 2006 11:05 AM

ok, so I am 3 days in and with our honeymoon in front and not behind us (June-Germany-World Cup YAY) we have returned to 'reality' very abruptly. Already back at work and living life as we were before the wedding. I sometimes have to remind myself that we are, in fact, married LOL. I moved into his apt, so I am still trying to find a place for myself. I guess it has been a little anti climactic in that sense.

the day of was this beautiful whirlwind...we went out east on Monday and just vegged (Danfords is a very nice hotel) and Wednesday Leo was already back to work. It's a strange time...

anyone go through this..and I the only one!

Nautical bride Posted: May 12, 2006 02:03 PM

Re: tell me truly girls...how has the 'transition' been?

Posted by leese

the other thing i am suggesting, other than the review, is to write a recap.

i'm starting that this weekend so i can remember everything that happened at our wedding... that way, the photos and video can help me remember and so much can be written down and recorded.

I second this. Both my DH and I did this - we each wrote over 30 pages about our wedding day and it will always be a keepsake! It helped me remember the whole day since it went by so fast (and we didn't get video, so all I have is proofs.)

I too felt a little blue after the wedding. Mostly, I had really enjoyed the wedding planning - it was a creative outlet for me and I missed having something 'to look forward to.' I know I am supposed to look forward to the rest of our lives and having kids, etc, but we don't plan to have kids for a while and we are going to experience some major changes and distance this coming year. See my last post. Still, I wouldn't trade being married to my DH for the world.