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Thank you picture

ddunne23 Posted:

Thank you picture

DH and I have different ideas about our thank you picture. I would love to use a non-traditional fun shot and he is so traditional and wants the picture of us, full lenth at church. We will probably go with the church picture because I seem to get my way with everything else! But, still I'm torn..I know if I go back to DH and say I really think we should use this one, he will give in and say whichever one you want is fine (just to shut me up!). But I don't want to be that person..you know! So here are the pics: I like the closeup one of us, but DH thinks 'it looks like we are in Jamaica with all the palm trees', and I also like the pic of us kissing, whereas he is all about the church one.
What to do???
NovemberSue Posted:

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Just remember that the thank you photo gets shrunk down to wallet size and you will be a lot smaller than you are in your proofs.
We are so far away in our thank you's,we weren't happy.
Sonicstef Posted:

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I think you should pick the photo that best represents the day for you. Seeing how great your other photos are, I dont think these do it justice.

Keep in mind that I am the anti portrait lady :D

Edited to say that with the full knowledge that the older set prefer a very traditional photo, I could care less because a)I was paying for it and they were MY thank yous and b)I prefer the compliment 'wow, that photo is very cool/artistic/fun/representative of your style' to 'we are so happy that we can see your dress full length'.

Niecey Posted:

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Great pictures. I totally see where both of you are coming from. I love untraditional shots but being most of my family (or more DH's family) is very traditional, I knew they would prefer a traditional photo so I went that route.

I love #3 - think it would make a great notecard thank you but the untraditional thing and you don't see DH's face...may upset people.

I think #1 or #2 are good choices but would go with #2. You had such a great Christmas theme at your wedding and #2 really shows that. I liked #1 at first look best but then read your palm tree line and now kind of felt the same way as DH. lol
ddunne23 Posted:

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I totally agree Stef, but I need to get DH on our bandwagon!

Niecey Posted:

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good point November - #2 may be affected by shrinking!

NovemberSue Posted:

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Wouldn't #2 be too far away when its a wallet size?

ddunne23 Posted:

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Great points Nicey! Both of our families are very traditional, DH's more so. I think many would be like 'what an odd picture to send' if I sent one of my favorites! The pictures really are for others, not me, and I can use all the fun ones in my album etc. I just want to make a statement with our thank you in the same way we did with the wedding. And to think the wedding stress was done!

jennbaby Posted:

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I like #1!

ILT1221 Posted:

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#1. The other ones are lovely but your faces are the most important aspect and you will be too far away once the print is reduced.

JennRenee Posted:

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I love #1!
shamma Posted:

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#1

Like I stated, our guest are not into the artsy pix, so for me to send that to them they would not appreciate it like I do. Not even my hubby appreciate them. So as to give the people what they want we sent a traditional pix. I have all my artsy/fun pix all over everything else. Frames, album etc. Your pix are great, anyone you send I am sure will be nice. Make sure your hubby's face is showing tho'

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