To Look or not To Look w/Poll

danielle19755 Posted: Apr 12, 2008 03:16 PM

To Look or not To Look w/Poll

I was listening to a radio show the other morning, and they were having a discussion wether or not you would look through ur significant others phone or email, if you suspected cheating.. What would you do??

bettybcafe Posted: Apr 12, 2008 03:21 PM

Re: To Look or not To Look w/Poll

I heard it on the radio too . See, thats a tough ques. I never look though DH's phone or email but if I suspected he was cheated I prob. would....and then confront him about it.

PegaLega Posted: Apr 12, 2008 03:26 PM

Re: To Look or not To Look w/Poll

I always do and vice versa-but its not to see if he is cheating-its to call his friends, to check his email b/c he asked me to,etc.

I dont think its an issue if there isnt already an issue-obviously if cheating or the thought is involved you would meet him being annoyed at the door
I have 100% trust in him to be honest with me and the same from him so it doesnt affect either one of us.

vmystique33 Posted: Apr 12, 2008 03:27 PM

Re: To Look or not To Look w/Poll

I used to look through his emails

hayleyandsteve Posted: Apr 12, 2008 03:41 PM

Re: To Look or not To Look w/Poll

if i suspected cheating... then yes.

so i had to put 'maybe' on your poll because just 'yes' isn't a choice...

i don't look through his phone/emails unless he asks me to check something for him. actually i don't even think i know his email password (although i'm sure i could guess haha)....

Brian and Marie Posted: Apr 12, 2008 04:14 PM

Re: To Look or not To Look w/Poll

If I suspected cheating then i'd DEF look!!

JennNicole Posted: Apr 12, 2008 04:16 PM

Re: To Look or not To Look w/Poll

of course to me that is a NO brainer

Colette Posted: Apr 12, 2008 09:50 PM

Re: To Look or not To Look w/Poll

I would TOTALLY look if I suspected them. But right now only if he asks me to. But the emails he gets are SO bloody boring they put me to sleep... AND my little Luddite can only read txt msgs, he never learned how to 'send' 'em and isn't interested in finding out. So if he had a 'bit on the side' they'd have to communicate with snail mail love letters or something...

danielle19755 Posted: Apr 13, 2008 11:18 AM

Re: To Look or not To Look w/Poll

Posted by Colette

I would TOTALLY look if I suspected them. But right now only if he asks me to. But the emails he gets are SO bloody boring they put me to sleep... AND my little Luddite can only read txt msgs, he never learned how to 'send' 'em and isn't interested in finding out. So if he had a 'bit on the side' they'd have to communicate with snail mail love letters or something...

lol