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What do you call your in laws?
AwaitingAugust Posted: Feb 07, 2011 12:23 PM+
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What do you call your in laws?

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MikesBride2B Posted: Feb 07, 2011 12:24 PM+
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Re: What do you call your in laws?

To their faces? Their first names...

You don't want to know what I call MIL behind her back
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halfbaked Posted: Feb 07, 2011 12:24 PM+
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Re: What do you call your in laws?

Pat & Vera.
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kris_gets_hitched Posted: Feb 07, 2011 12:24 PM+
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Re: What do you call your in laws?

It's considered disrespectful in their culture to call them by their first names.

But I would be disrespecting myself if I called them 'mom and dad'.

So I avoid labels entirely.
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2010BTB Posted: Feb 07, 2011 12:24 PM+
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Re: What do you call your in laws?

It changes all the time - Mama Z, Carol or Mom. Also kinda depends if my mom is there or not. I feel weird calling MIL mom when my mom is around.
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AwaitingAugust Posted: Feb 07, 2011 12:25 PM+
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Re: What do you call your in laws?


Posted by MikesBride2B
You don't want to know what I call MIL behind her back



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Future Mrs H Posted: Feb 07, 2011 12:26 PM+
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Re: What do you call your in laws?

I called MIL by her first name. Jerry doesnt call my parents anything yet. He just waits till he catches their eye to talk to them.
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AngnShaun Posted: Feb 07, 2011 12:27 PM+
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Re: What do you call your in laws?

by their first names
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cateydee Posted: Feb 07, 2011 12:29 PM+
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Re: What do you call your in laws?

mami and papi. it was TOTALLY weird at first but everyone in the entire world calls them by that so it seemed unnatural to not call them it.
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jhines4684 Posted: Feb 07, 2011 12:31 PM+
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Re: What do you call your in laws?

mom and dad, they asked DH to tell me that.

My SIL avoids it entirely, and now calls them nanny and poppa because of the baby, she'll even call us and say 'what are you getting nanny for christmas' and DH goes 'Nanny's been dead for years now, oh wait, you mean mom?'.

I dont mind it. I never call my elders by there first names unless I'm directed to.

My dad told DH flat out to be called 'tom', he didn't want to be called dad, not sure about my mom.
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Becca2010 Posted: Feb 07, 2011 12:33 PM+
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Re: What do you call your in laws?

When talking to them, by their first names.

When talking about them, The Mom and The Dad. Always with the 'The' in front.
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JAAMS Posted: Feb 07, 2011 12:33 PM+
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Re: What do you call your in laws?

I usually don't say anything, and just speak to them directly...but if I do call them something, it's by their first names.
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StaceyWill Posted: Feb 07, 2011 01:30 PM+
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Re: What do you call your in laws?

I don't speak to his mom, so I don't call her anything.
His dad, I call Papi.
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xoabxo Posted: Feb 07, 2011 01:38 PM+
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Re: What do you call your in laws?

My MIL said I could call them anything except Mrs. I call them mother and father or by their names. She said she doesn't like that BIL wife just talks at her and has never addressed her. Its weird calling them mom or dad because that is reserved for my parents which DH calls them by first name
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Rosalind_75 Posted: Feb 07, 2011 01:40 PM+
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Re: What do you call your in laws?

mama booch

she lovessssssssssss it
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