WHat was the most annoying part of the wedding planning

RedHead Posted: Nov 14, 2004 05:53 PM

WHat was the most annoying part of the wedding planning

My list:

1. looking for BM dresses and picking on the everyone liked

2. placecards

3. Registry

sandj100304 Posted: Nov 14, 2004 06:28 PM

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MIL - enough said!

Monkeybride Posted: Nov 14, 2004 06:44 PM

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I honestly loved planning my wedding. We didn't have any family drama and no major bumps in the road so I can't thing of anything I hated.

RedHead Posted: Nov 14, 2004 06:46 PM

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Posted by Monkeybride

I honestly loved planning my wedding. We didn't have any family drama and no major bumps in the road so I can't thing of anything I hated.

I didn't mean you had to hate it...What i meant was..what was the most annoying, difficult, bothersome, worrisome, pain in the butt...whatever you want to call it..

I am sure everybody had something...

suven Posted: Nov 14, 2004 06:56 PM

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btrflygrl Posted: Nov 14, 2004 06:59 PM

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Family...nuf said...both sides!!

princess99 Posted: Nov 14, 2004 07:58 PM

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feuding families- not mine, but 2 families in particular, picking BM dresses, ordering them and getting everyone to do it ontime.

holly231 Posted: Nov 14, 2004 08:25 PM

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The Priest was totally USELESS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Boop2704 Posted: Nov 14, 2004 08:33 PM

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Getting all the BM's to order their damn gowns!!

julz33 Posted: Nov 14, 2004 08:48 PM

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Definitely doing all the DIY stuff, like programs, placecards, cry packs, favors... BORING!

chmpgnrose Posted: Nov 14, 2004 09:58 PM

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1. Not getting my DH or my immediate family's cooperation or 100% involvement after delegation.

2. Hearing all white lies, as my extended family is all about talk/presentation and NOT about action or initiation.

3. Being constantly compared against past and future weddings of your extended family on what other past and future couples have done in every area. Being constantly asked if DH and I will do XXX or XXX like XYZ couple did in their wedding. Why should our wedding be exactly the same as another? Why should DH and I have the same exact menu, same invitations, same favors, same wedding theme/color scheme, same bridal gown, same BM gowns, same honeymoon location/city, same exact bridal gown, same everything? That's stupid as comparing only publicly shows insecurity, competition, anomosity, heated tension, and especially lack of trust for us as the current bride and groom.

4. Hearing that 'you've have way TOO much time' to plan your wedding from your own family and friends is very disgusting. They do NOT understand and know how much work is involved in planning the biggest day of your life.

Marcie Posted: Nov 14, 2004 10:00 PM

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My most annoying part of planning the wedding I guess was the seating chart

Smiley Posted: Nov 14, 2004 11:56 PM

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definitely the placecards and the continually growing guest list

Sunny Posted: Nov 15, 2004 12:00 AM

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Posted by Marcie

My most annoying part of planning the wedding I guess was the seating chart

I agree.

nylisa Posted: Nov 15, 2004 09:35 AM

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Posted by sandj100304

MIL - enough said!

I agree 100%

jozieb0925 Posted: Nov 15, 2004 09:41 AM

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Posted by sandj100304

MIL - enough said!

same here!! Everything else was a piece of cake!!

Sweetness Posted: Nov 15, 2004 09:47 AM

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Family DRAMA! and making lists. I was constantly making lists and what to do, when it needs to get done by. SOOO glad no more planning! I can actually be excited now for my brothers wedding in 5 months

CaCRmr Posted: Nov 15, 2004 10:30 AM

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Hmmm....probably the invite list (who to invite with a guest or not ) and of course...MOVING

nferrandi Posted: Nov 15, 2004 10:40 AM

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1) doing it pretty much by myself, DH wasn't much help
2) having to treck out to LI all the time- interview vendors, buy favors, block hotel rooms, pick up trial CP, hair trials, etc...

tourist Posted: Nov 15, 2004 10:58 AM

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Posted by nferrandi

having to treck out to LI all the time- interview vendors, buy favors, block hotel rooms, pick up trial CP, hair trials, etc...

Yeah, that was on my list too!
Along with choosing BM dreses with both of my Bms being OOT.

And finding a church was stressful.

And DH says keeping my shower a secret while helping my mom & MOH was anoying!