For Newlyweds Only - What will we do to make this day fly. – Page 2

yelley77 · 2009-01-29T09:51:21-05:00

The drama thread was fun yesterday. We even got a little kinky in another thread. What should be talk about today?

MrsHtobe Posted: Jan 29, 2009 10:04 AM

Re: What will we do to make this day fly.

Posted by yelley77

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We should talk abotu how funny it is that there is a BJ's right next door to Hooters.

really? Where? Thats funny!! And I have a BJs card and love hooters wings. Mmmmm wings!

I think it's exit 57 or 58 off the LIE. DH loves the wings at Hooters. he says they are even better when they still have the feathers on them

eww, I used to love Hooters wings.

But now I Croxleys wings more, so we don't go to Hooters haha

We LOOOOOOOVE croxley's. we were just there last night. We go every wednesday, you should come next time :)

Mmmm, maybe I will! I also enjoy trying a new beer everytime I go LOL Shoot me and FM next week and let me know what time you chicas are heading over!

yelley77 Posted: Jan 29, 2009 10:04 AM

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Posted by RadiantBride

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something controversial

Ooo! i agree! can we think of a controversial topic that has never been (or is rarely) touched apon on LIW? (is it even possible?????!!?!?!?!!!)

Hummm how about divorce? I think the rate is about 50% of marriages end in divorce what do we think are the causes?

midgets ? not sure why they popped up in my head.

ummmm thinking of more things that havent been touched.

Because people don't think marriage is really work. They think if things don't work out, we'll just divorce. When I said my vows and I told my hubby i'd be there through the good times and the bad, i meant it. Not everyone means that when they say it.

And yes, midgets are 25% of that 50%

I agree with what you said. Sometimes it just seems like people dont want to work through the hard times and expect marriages to be a fairy tale. I am sure not even a year being married we have seen how difficult it could be but this is something that you work on not leave.
Hearing about Divorces makes me sad. Even if I dont know the person.

DH and I disagree all the time -- that doesn't mean we don't have a good marriage, or that we are unhappy. We both listen to each others POV (even if we don't agree) and we RESPECT each other. I'd never call DH an @sshole, or a DB. and i expect the same from him

DeeluvsVinny Posted: Jan 29, 2009 10:04 AM

Re: What will we do to make this day fly.

Do you think ppl are so used to divorce that it becomes an easy out?

Growing up...out of all my close friends, my parents were the only ones still together!

And there has never been a divorce in my family- either side.

I just think it's nuts the ppl get divorces so easily. One of Dh's friends is 35 and already divorced twice!

RadiantBride Posted: Jan 29, 2009 10:05 AM

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OHHHH I have a great topic but it might be like really too much.
I will send you girls FM so we can vote on it.

yelley77 Posted: Jan 29, 2009 10:05 AM

Re: What will we do to make this day fly.

Posted by MrsHtobe

Posted by yelley77

Posted by MrsHtobe

Posted by yelley77

Posted by GinaZ

Posted by yelley77

We should talk abotu how funny it is that there is a BJ's right next door to Hooters.

really? Where? Thats funny!! And I have a BJs card and love hooters wings. Mmmmm wings!

I think it's exit 57 or 58 off the LIE. DH loves the wings at Hooters. he says they are even better when they still have the feathers on them

eww, I used to love Hooters wings.

But now I Croxleys wings more, so we don't go to Hooters haha

We LOOOOOOOVE croxley's. we were just there last night. We go every wednesday, you should come next time :)

Mmmm, maybe I will! I also enjoy trying a new beer everytime I go LOL Shoot me and FM next week and let me know what time you chicas are heading over!

Will do. we are usally there between 730 and 8 and there is always at least 10 of us and we have so much fun!

MrsHtobe Posted: Jan 29, 2009 10:06 AM

Re: What will we do to make this day fly.

Posted by TM2008

Posted by RadiantBride

Posted by yelley77

Posted by RadiantBride

Posted by TM2008

Posted by RadiantBride

something controversial

Ooo! i agree! can we think of a controversial topic that has never been (or is rarely) touched apon on LIW? (is it even possible?????!!?!?!?!!!)

Hummm how about divorce? I think the rate is about 50% of marriages end in divorce what do we think are the causes?

midgets ? not sure why they popped up in my head.

ummmm thinking of more things that havent been touched.

Because people don't think marriage is really work. They think if things don't work out, we'll just divorce. When I said my vows and I told my hubby i'd be there through the good times and the bad, i meant it. Not everyone means that when they say it.

And yes, midgets are 25% of that 50%

I agree with what you said. Sometimes it just seems like people dont want to work through the hard times and expect marriages to be a fairy tale. I am sure not even a year being married we have seen how difficult it could be but this is something that you work on not leave.
Hearing about Divorces makes me sad. Even if I dont know the person.

ITA with both of you!!!

darn midgets!!!!

I wanted to hire a midget to come out from under my dress at my wedding during the garter removal - after seeing it on youtube - but DH thought it would take away from the 'classiness' of the wedding. I even found a website - rentamidget.com or something LOL

TommysWife08 Posted: Jan 29, 2009 10:06 AM

Re: What will we do to make this day fly.

Posted by DeeluvsVinny

Do you think ppl are so used to divorce that it becomes an easy out?

Growing up...out of all my close friends, my parents were the only ones still together!

And there has never been a divorce in my family- either side.

I just think it's nuts the ppl get divorces so easily. One of Dh's friends is 35 and already divorced twice!

i think that in some cases, ppl get married wayy too fast and young... or they get married just b/c they are having a baby together... which, mind you, in SOME of these cases, it can work out, but i think this adds to the divorce rate as well

SusiBtoM Posted: Jan 29, 2009 10:06 AM

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what happened to yesterday's non-drama drama thread ?
POOF ! it's gone.

TommysWife08 Posted: Jan 29, 2009 10:07 AM

Re: What will we do to make this day fly.

Posted by MrsHtobe

I wanted to hire a midget to come out from under my dress at my wedding during the garter removal - after seeing it on youtube - but DH thought it would take away from the 'classiness' of the wedding. I even found a website - rentamidget.com or something LOL

OMGGGG if i saw that at a wedding i think i would pee myself!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

yelley77 Posted: Jan 29, 2009 10:07 AM

Re: What will we do to make this day fly.

Posted by SusiBtoM

what happened to yesterday's non-drama drama thread ?
POOF ! it's gone.

It was pulled. It stayed fun and quiet. I guess they wanted it to leave on good terms ;)

RadiantBride Posted: Jan 29, 2009 10:08 AM

Re: What will we do to make this day fly.

Posted by DeeluvsVinny

Do you think ppl are so used to divorce that it becomes an easy out?

Growing up...out of all my close friends, my parents were the only ones still together!

And there has never been a divorce in my family- either side.

I just think it's nuts the ppl get divorces so easily. One of Dh's friends is 35 and already divorced twice!

Out of about 10 couples that I know that got married withing the last 5 years I want say say 4 or 5 are divorced.
My parents have been married 35 years and people are shocked by that. In my family
(like yours) that's normal.

RadiantBride Posted: Jan 29, 2009 10:09 AM

Re: What will we do to make this day fly.

Posted by MrsHtobe

Posted by TM2008

Posted by RadiantBride

Posted by yelley77

Posted by RadiantBride

Posted by TM2008

Posted by RadiantBride

something controversial

Ooo! i agree! can we think of a controversial topic that has never been (or is rarely) touched apon on LIW? (is it even possible?????!!?!?!?!!!)

Hummm how about divorce? I think the rate is about 50% of marriages end in divorce what do we think are the causes?

midgets ? not sure why they popped up in my head.

ummmm thinking of more things that havent been touched.

Because people don't think marriage is really work. They think if things don't work out, we'll just divorce. When I said my vows and I told my hubby i'd be there through the good times and the bad, i meant it. Not everyone means that when they say it.

And yes, midgets are 25% of that 50%

I agree with what you said. Sometimes it just seems like people dont want to work through the hard times and expect marriages to be a fairy tale. I am sure not even a year being married we have seen how difficult it could be but this is something that you work on not leave.
Hearing about Divorces makes me sad. Even if I dont know the person.

ITA with both of you!!!

darn midgets!!!!

I wanted to hire a midget to come out from under my dress at my wedding during the garter removal - after seeing it on youtube - but DH thought it would take away from the 'classiness' of the wedding. I even found a website - rentamidget.com or something LOL

OMG

yelley77 Posted: Jan 29, 2009 10:09 AM

Re: What will we do to make this day fly.

Posted by TM2008

Posted by MrsHtobe

I wanted to hire a midget to come out from under my dress at my wedding during the garter removal - after seeing it on youtube - but DH thought it would take away from the 'classiness' of the wedding. I even found a website - rentamidget.com or something LOL

OMGGGG if i saw that at a wedding i think i would pee myself!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

me too!

MrsHtobe Posted: Jan 29, 2009 10:09 AM

Re: What will we do to make this day fly.

Posted by TM2008

Posted by DeeluvsVinny

Do you think ppl are so used to divorce that it becomes an easy out?

Growing up...out of all my close friends, my parents were the only ones still together!

And there has never been a divorce in my family- either side.

I just think it's nuts the ppl get divorces so easily. One of Dh's friends is 35 and already divorced twice!

i think that in some cases, ppl get married wayy too fast and young... or they get married just b/c they are having a baby together... which, mind you, in SOME of these cases, it can work out, but i think this adds to the divorce rate as well

ITA - I think some people in general take marriage much more lightly - just because divorce is something that is so much more common nowadays. . they see it as an easy way out and more socially acceptable!

Something that drives me nuts?

Divorce Parties - why would you want to celebrate something like that?!?! It baffles me, to be honest.

MrsHtobe Posted: Jan 29, 2009 10:10 AM

Re: What will we do to make this day fly.

Posted by yelley77

Posted by TM2008

Posted by MrsHtobe

I wanted to hire a midget to come out from under my dress at my wedding during the garter removal - after seeing it on youtube - but DH thought it would take away from the 'classiness' of the wedding. I even found a website - rentamidget.com or something LOL

OMGGGG if i saw that at a wedding i think i would pee myself!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

me too!

PS - I brought it up jokingly, but I never would have REALLY done it LOL. Before anyone starts thinking bad things about me

yelley77 Posted: Jan 29, 2009 10:13 AM

Re: What will we do to make this day fly.

Posted by MrsHtobe

Posted by yelley77

Posted by TM2008

Posted by MrsHtobe

I wanted to hire a midget to come out from under my dress at my wedding during the garter removal - after seeing it on youtube - but DH thought it would take away from the 'classiness' of the wedding. I even found a website - rentamidget.com or something LOL

OMGGGG if i saw that at a wedding i think i would pee myself!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

me too!

PS - I brought it up jokingly, but I never would have REALLY done it LOL. Before anyone starts thinking bad things about me

Bad!?!?! i think it's hysterical!

RadiantBride Posted: Jan 29, 2009 10:14 AM

Re: What will we do to make this day fly.

Posted by MrsHtobe

Something that drives me nuts?

Divorce Parties - why would you want to celebrate something like that?!?! It baffles me, to be honest.

They are becoming so much more popular nowadays.
So do I bring a gift or just eat the food you paid for with your ex's money???

GinaZ Posted: Jan 29, 2009 10:16 AM

Re: What will we do to make this day fly.

Posted by yelley77

Posted by GinaZ

Posted by yelley77

We should talk abotu how funny it is that there is a BJ's right next door to Hooters.

really? Where? Thats funny!! And I have a BJs card and love hooters wings. Mmmmm wings!

I think it's exit 57 or 58 off the LIE. DH loves the wings at Hooters. he says they are even better when they still have the feathers on them

OMG one time we got one with a feather and I freaked out a little.

MrsHtobe Posted: Jan 29, 2009 10:17 AM

Re: What will we do to make this day fly.

Posted by RadiantBride

Posted by MrsHtobe

Something that drives me nuts?

Divorce Parties - why would you want to celebrate something like that?!?! It baffles me, to be honest.

They are becoming so much more popular nowadays.
So do I bring a gift or just eat the food you paid for with your ex's money???

Exactly - I was reading an article in the newsday like last week about how these event planners who do bachelor and bachelorette parties are now doing divorce parties too! They had a section for 'Tips for planning a successful Divorce Party' and I thought it was ridiculous.

I mean - I understand if people want to get out there and move on after a divorce - but making it the main focus of your night in the form of a celebration? I don't know.