what would you do...part 1

agraydc Posted: Feb 25, 2009 04:47 PM

what would you do...part 1

what would you do if an ex boyfriend sent you a freind request or a message on facebook or myspace???

SB7308 Posted: Feb 25, 2009 04:48 PM

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Ignoreeeee that mofo

ldrenckhahn Posted: Feb 25, 2009 04:48 PM

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Posted by SB7308

Ignoreeeee that mofo

agreed

kirstenjk Posted: Feb 25, 2009 04:49 PM

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Ignore him - it's so not worth opening that door again!!!!

futuremrsfab Posted: Feb 25, 2009 04:50 PM

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Posted by kirstenjk

Ignore him - it's so not worth opening that door again!!!!

totally agree!

lizzie217 Posted: Feb 25, 2009 04:51 PM

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Well it has happened to me and I chose to ignore him bc we are not friends and I did not see a point in being friends on facebook.

IMO it was him being nosy and wanting to see what my life is like now,

No hard feelings towards him but I am only facebook friends with people I am friends with.

Espo22 Posted: Feb 25, 2009 04:52 PM

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I would ignore it

dajc23 Posted: Feb 25, 2009 04:52 PM

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I guess i'm the minority lol

Unless it was a really bad break up and you completely despise this person, then of course you ignore him!

I remained friends with my ex's, so I say add them. I actually had a nice lengthy convo with one yesterday on FB. Another one is In Iraq right now so i havent spoken to him but when he is home we talk probably about once a week.

Bride908 Posted: Feb 25, 2009 04:52 PM

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Ignoreeee its just not worth having to explain to DH.

I wouldnt like it if I saw his x on his account

Jenn04 Posted: Feb 25, 2009 04:52 PM

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I would probably add if we were on ok terms.

I have one ex on there and had two exes on myspace. It was totally platonic and we are still civil to eachother. I kinda wanted to be like ha, look at me now..I am married, yada yada!

I am also tooo nice.

If it were an ex I hated than I wouldnt add!

Espo22 Posted: Feb 25, 2009 04:54 PM

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although sometimes they can still find their own ways. I had an ex who posted on my MOH's FB, she had a picture from my wedding and he posted a comment saying 'i didnt get my invite' so annoying lol

Bride908 Posted: Feb 25, 2009 04:58 PM

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Posted by Espo22

although sometimes they can still find their own ways. I had an ex who posted on my MOH's FB, she had a picture from my wedding and he posted a comment saying 'i didnt get my invite' so annoying lol

One of my ex's does things like this. I know its just a joke but I still think he's a cornaball

lizzie217 Posted: Feb 25, 2009 05:03 PM

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Posted by Espo22

although sometimes they can still find their own ways. I had an ex who posted on my MOH's FB, she had a picture from my wedding and he posted a comment saying 'i didnt get my invite' so annoying lol

Give it up buddy....really this is why I hate FB even I dont accept if any of my friends do and they tag themselves in my pics anyone can see it anyway...

agraydc Posted: Feb 25, 2009 05:03 PM

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my high school boyfriend saw a post i put on his sisters page and he sent me....

'how's life?'

i just saw him at our 10 year reunion so he met DH....but we really didnt talk that night...

i answered him short and sweet and will tell DH tonight about him but i kinda feel bad for the guy, his family all packed up and moved to arizona and he has a business here in NY so he is trying to sell it so he can move too

and i knew all this info before he told me so thats kinda why i answered him.....

mrsjpc3 Posted: Feb 25, 2009 05:08 PM

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DH has his x as a friend, and I have mine too. We did not have bad breakups - we are all civil. All around everyone is now married, and its really not a big deal.

Espo22 Posted: Feb 25, 2009 05:31 PM

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Posted by lizzie217

Posted by Espo22

although sometimes they can still find their own ways. I had an ex who posted on my MOH's FB, she had a picture from my wedding and he posted a comment saying 'i didnt get my invite' so annoying lol

Give it up buddy....really this is why I hate FB even I dont accept if any of my friends do and they tag themselves in my pics anyone can see it anyway...

im not even on FB, i had enough with myspace and dont want to start another one lol. My MOH told me about it. I just hope DH doesnt see it only bc he knows my ex and doesnt like him lol so any little thing will annoy him.

Melimaup Posted: Feb 25, 2009 05:31 PM

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Posted by Jenn04

I would probably add if we were on ok terms.

I have one ex on there and had two exes on myspace. It was totally platonic and we are still civil to eachother. I kinda wanted to be like ha, look at me now..I am married, yada yada!

I am also tooo nice.

If it were an ex I hated than I wouldnt add!

ITA.

lizzie217 Posted: Feb 25, 2009 05:35 PM

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Posted by Espo22

Posted by lizzie217

Posted by Espo22

although sometimes they can still find their own ways. I had an ex who posted on my MOH's FB, she had a picture from my wedding and he posted a comment saying 'i didnt get my invite' so annoying lol

Give it up buddy....really this is why I hate FB even I dont accept if any of my friends do and they tag themselves in my pics anyone can see it anyway...

im not even on FB, i had enough with myspace and dont want to start another one lol. My MOH told me about it. I just hope DH doesnt see it only bc he knows my ex and doesnt like him lol so any little thing will annoy him.

Totally know what you mean! I got rid of myspace for similar drama.

Now I have FB but only friend my FRIENDS not randoms...It still isnt great bc like I said people can see all your stuff if their friend is tagged.

Butterfly123 Posted: Feb 25, 2009 05:37 PM

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The first guy I dated in HS (not serious) is my friend on facebook. He is married with a child and Im married. We dont talk often but I thought it was nice to hear from him. If it bothers DH just dont accept him.