worst day at work

my boss is just pounding on me today.. well she has been for the past few weeks.. on and off.. she went nuts on me this morning with her do this, do that.. i'm a director.. and they way she treats me, is like a college intern.. i can't take it.. i just had a cry out with a co worker.. i don't want to jump ship.. but i mean seriously.. i can't deal with these antics.. so degrading.. and its terrible.. every morning.. i feel like crap coming in..

My boss is like that. For the most part I just snap back or ignore him as much as I can. When he does it (and its often) I usually give him an attitude and he backs off....

So I say give it back to her!!

seriously that's so unprofessional. who is HER boss? I have the best boss(es) ever.... I think working with men can just be easier. I got a lot less respect from any women bosses i ever had, so i unfortunately never had a women role model at work.

but that's crap, she can't treat you like that. I would say something if it's getting really out of hand. even to her first - before going to her boss and complaining.

sorry that she is treating you like that- is it possible that her boss is riding her- thats usually what causes that kind of thing

Just give it right back to her. I can't take that kind of treatment...most of the timenit's just a power trip.

That sounds like my life. I am sorry. I really know how much that can suck. I always remind myself this 'This is just my job, this is not my life.' I repeat that in my head when I am upset or pissed at work. It seems to help me. Also when I think of doing extra like a shmoo and I always do so much more than I need to I say this 'F*ck It. They don't do crap for me!' That reminds me not to sacrafice my personal life for the **** hole that is my job.

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Posted by snwb08

I have the best boss(es) ever.... I think working with men can just be easier. I got a lot less respect from any women bosses i ever had, so i unfortunately never had a women role model at work.

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I agree. In my experience I have found that I don't like working for women. I don't know what it is. It's almost as tho they're trying to compensate for not being a man or something. Like they're trying too hard to PROVE themselves and take on more authority than what is actually needed. What's with that? Just be a good boss and treat your employees with respect. Nobody cares if their superior is male or female - as long as you do the job with professionalism and genuine kindness. I don't understand why that is so hard to understand.

thank you guys.. my internet was down for the past hour or so, i couldn't log back in..

i know her boss (our boss) pounds on her.. and she is constantly trying to prove something i feel.. and you guys right with the whole male and female thing..

i've moved around a lot in the past 4 years.. so i just don't want to move right now, because it looks like i am always jumping from one to another and especially in this economy.. sigh.. thank you for all the loving.. i have a professional masters and a certification, so just to go through this is the worst feeling.. blah.. thank you

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Posted by Bride908

My boss is like that. For the most part I just snap back or ignore him as much as I can. When he does it (and its often) I usually give him an attitude and he backs off....

So I say give it back to her!!

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I don't have it in me to give it back to her.. I wish I did.. just lay it out.. I'm very mellow when it comes to relationships at work and especially with my superiors and my subs - only because you never know how the cookie will crumble like 5 years from now..

and i need to work.. i know we all do.. but i can't make myself to come to point where i feel strong or confident enough to talk back.. because then it will get worse.. or i that's what i think..

That s u c k s. Sorry you're having a bad day.