Would you be annoyed? (long, sorry)
A little background:
Dh has a best friend from college (a female best friend). They lived together in college and are very close. She is married (has been for 5 years) and DH is close to the husband as well, but the friend and DH knew each other first. He knows her whole family, she knows his, etc. (example: we flew to Texas in September for her sister's wedding and DH knew all the aunts/uncles/grandparents). She was a BM in our wedding (her hubby was a GM), she is very sweet and helped throw my shower etc. She is pregnant, due in March. They live in Boston.
For the past 3 years we have gone to Boston in February to visit. This year it so happens that her MIL is throwing her a shower the weekend we come, so obviously we are going! Well, her sister is coming in from Texas for it too. GREAT! I can't wait.
Yesterday DH called his friend to confirm the details and she offhandedly mentioned to him that she and her sis were getting massages the Saturday we are there if I want to come. No details, nothing. So he tells me and I was like 'are you sure they don't want sister time etc' and he says no. So I email her asking about it and again checking are you sure you don't want sister time. Her response to me was:
'hi mer,
when do you plan to arrive? adri and i both have appointments for 1:15pm on saturday at g2o spa on newbury.
http://g2ospasalon.com/
we got ruelala coupons too - you should check and see if they are still available!
regarding sister time, no worries - we will all go out for brunch and then do massages and then maybe go our separate ways so adri and i can run errands. you and jonjon should have a nice newbury street/copley day!'
OK. So i try ruelala, no coupons. DH tried calling her to ask about the coupon, no answer. So I call the spa. They are all booked for Saturday. So I guess I'm not going.
So basically, she invited me offhand as an afterthought even though she has known we were coming in for over a month now....and I am totally excluded.
I'm kinda annoyed....but not sure what I'm feeling....
I dunno. Guess I needed to vent!
Should I tell DH how I'm feeling?
This is already super long, so you all get a cookie!
Dh has a best friend from college (a female best friend). They lived together in college and are very close. She is married (has been for 5 years) and DH is close to the husband as well, but the friend and DH knew each other first. He knows her whole family, she knows his, etc. (example: we flew to Texas in September for her sister's wedding and DH knew all the aunts/uncles/grandparents). She was a BM in our wedding (her hubby was a GM), she is very sweet and helped throw my shower etc. She is pregnant, due in March. They live in Boston.
For the past 3 years we have gone to Boston in February to visit. This year it so happens that her MIL is throwing her a shower the weekend we come, so obviously we are going! Well, her sister is coming in from Texas for it too. GREAT! I can't wait.
Yesterday DH called his friend to confirm the details and she offhandedly mentioned to him that she and her sis were getting massages the Saturday we are there if I want to come. No details, nothing. So he tells me and I was like 'are you sure they don't want sister time etc' and he says no. So I email her asking about it and again checking are you sure you don't want sister time. Her response to me was:
'hi mer,
when do you plan to arrive? adri and i both have appointments for 1:15pm on saturday at g2o spa on newbury.
http://g2ospasalon.com/
we got ruelala coupons too - you should check and see if they are still available!
regarding sister time, no worries - we will all go out for brunch and then do massages and then maybe go our separate ways so adri and i can run errands. you and jonjon should have a nice newbury street/copley day!'
OK. So i try ruelala, no coupons. DH tried calling her to ask about the coupon, no answer. So I call the spa. They are all booked for Saturday. So I guess I'm not going.
So basically, she invited me offhand as an afterthought even though she has known we were coming in for over a month now....and I am totally excluded.
I'm kinda annoyed....but not sure what I'm feeling....
I dunno. Guess I needed to vent!
Should I tell DH how I'm feeling?
This is already super long, so you all get a cookie!
