My friend, who is married by the way is really into clubbing drinking and drugs ocasionally Im totally not into that at all infact very against it. Anyway, she always asks me to go out and I always say no becuase Im not into going out clubbing anymore and she always gets mad and says that I never hang out blah blah blah. The truth is I never have fun with her at these places and I dont feel very safe. Well this time she sort of tricked me into going saying that this is a fashion show in the city at this club. So I said ok. well I looked if up on the internet and its not. Anyway how can i get out of this please help.
palebride
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be honest with her. tell her that you don't have fun and dont' feel safe when you go out with her you like her and would love to spend time with her, but you dont' want to be in an unsafe situation. and that you just happened on some information, and are worried that the place you are supposed to go to isn't what she said.
i went through this a few years ago, and stopped spending so much time with certain people becasue i wasnt' into the same things they were.....
btrflygrl
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flat out call her on her lie....that is SO wrong, and not behavior typical of a 'friend'
pschica
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that happens to me too.....
swags1016
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A friend would understand that this is no longer your thing
christy
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OMG! Tell her the truth, that you know it isnt a fashion show. Tell her that a real friend wouldnt lie to you, and that you need to find other things to do together besides going clubbing.
