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I think if they had a good realtionship that isn't going to end because the marriage of your DH with his ex-wife ended. That relationship ended but should all the realtionships that were built around that one end? I think if they were close at somepoint and had a good relationship there isn't anything to worry about or get upset over. That's between them at this point.

JMHO.

I mean, she obviously had some sort of relationship with her before you and DH. I think that it's tough when you move on and you still have those connections, especially with family.

I don't know if I would say anything about it unless it was something bad mouthing him or you or w/e. I was friends with my brothers ex-girlfriend for years after they broke up. We just had a great connection. I know it can be a little touchy, and I still see DH's ex girlfriend writing things to his cousins who he is very close with, and it bugs me a bit lol Like 'why don't you move on' but I guess if she became friends with them, who am I to say that she can't talk to them right?