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MisyMiss32 Posted: Dec 14, 2010 08:41 AM

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Byrne2Be Posted: Dec 14, 2010 08:51 AM

Re: Cousin's Wedding?

I don't think its horrible at all! You guys deserve a HM together...alone!

He wasn't able to make it to your wedding...he's planning a wedding within a year...and, you guys have set plans...its not like you were 'considering' that weekend!

I say....

I do understand that there is an element of 'feeling badly...' because I was raised really close to many of my first cousins. But again, you deserve to go on a HM with your husband!

Byrne2Be Posted: Dec 14, 2010 08:51 AM

Re: Cousin's Wedding?

PS - I would let him know sooner rather than later just so the legitimacy of your plans are understood and that the air is clear, ya know?

Oh, and despite him not sending a gift, I would def send a gift!

FutureMrsSoltan Posted: Dec 14, 2010 09:12 AM

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I dont think it horrible either. You had this planned already and you finally have some alone time just the 2 of you. I think they would understand

Future Mrs H Posted: Dec 14, 2010 09:22 AM

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I dont think its horrible! You deserve your HM! I would let him know now though

ourwedding9510 Posted: Dec 14, 2010 09:30 AM

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I don't think it's terrible AT ALL! It's your honeymoon! Go and enjoy and your cousin will understand completely!!!! It's already booked and it's much deserved!

miamimerger Posted: Dec 14, 2010 09:35 AM

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Not horrible at all. And after the year you've been through, I think they'd be more than understanding! Seriously, go on your honeymoon .

AwaitingAugust Posted: Dec 14, 2010 09:37 AM

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i don't think it's bad at all ... you already had plans before they set the date so you can't be blamed.

however, if you do feel bad, maybe you could postpone your HM by one day and leave on Sunday instead of Saturday? (but i wouldn't try TOO hard to be accommodating )

Im_My_Own_Princess Posted: Dec 14, 2010 10:17 AM

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I say go on the HM.. don't worry about him. He didn't go to your wedding or send a gift.

but honestly, you planned a wedding.. you know how hard it is to find a hall on a date you want.
so i think the chances of them actually getting married on that day are like low. just mho.
don't worry about it until you actually get an invite.