1 month to go and I cant take the stress

I am almost a month away and now is when the stress is getting to me.

My mom is driving me nuts, she is like a child whom I have to remind about appointments and things that need to be done every day. (she has her first fitting today and doesnt have her shoes yet!!! even though I told her twice during the last week she needed them)

My MOH is being real nice, but has yet to do a shower for me..its a month away, I know its supposed to be a surprise but dam...

I havent done anything with my cake, I need to finalize my flowers, meet all my vendors, do hair trial, makeup trial....my head is about to explode

Still need to book my dad a flight for the wedding...
Last meeting with RH, meet with the Pastor....tuxes....I feel sick


I have a month off starting next monday to finish everything (no school, no internship)

I havent slept in 2 days...


am soooo stressed

Just breathe....you will get it all done!
Don't think of everything you have to do...just wake up and say 'today i'm doing this'...

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Posted by kat124

I am almost a month away and now is when the stress is getting to me.

My mom is driving me nuts, she is like a child whom I have to remind about appointments and things that need to be done every day. (she has her first fitting today and doesnt have her shoes yet!!! even though I told her twice during the last week she needed them)

My MOH is being real nice, but has yet to do a shower for me..its a month away, I know its supposed to be a surprise but dam...

I havent done anything with my cake, I need to finalize my flowers, meet all my vendors, do hair trial, makeup trial....my head is about to explode

Still need to book my dad a flight for the wedding...
Last meeting with RH, meet with the Pastor....tuxes....I feel sick


I have a month off starting next monday to finish everything (no school, no internship)

I havent slept in 2 days...


am soooo stressed

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ok first breathe, and know things will get done.

Your mom will get her shoes, its not your problem you have more than enough to worry about so let her do it herself. Listen, i didnt even buy my own shoes until the day before my wedding hahaha so i had 3 fittings with NO shoes and guess what it worked out fine. She knows she'll need to buy shoes, so she will get them before the wedding, even if its a few days before. My mom had bought shoes, but then didnt like them as much, well she bought them while the dress was still at the store so she thought they matched well but once she put them together it didnt. So after she got her dress home, the week of my wedding she bought new shoes.

as far as finalizing things, again its THEM who call you. I know youre thinking its a month before and why havent they but they do call. Most call about 2-3 weeks before your wedding. They have weddings every weekend and many weddings to finalize so they dont do it until just a few weeks before. I was worried too about them not calling me but then all of a sudden they all called me around the same time and it got done. Your RH will call you when you need to go in and finalize your menu, that is when you will do your cake

as far as make up trial and book flight, make a schedule of when to do things. Write it down and put that today you will call and book make up trial, tomorrow you will book flight. it will help you to write it down to see when you will do things and see that you have time

Oh crap I forgot about seating arrangements, menus and programs