10 days and need help finding a wishing well

Question on this idea - Do people drop their cards in or is it kind of a central place where you put them as you get them?? Im guessing the latter. I dont want to carry a bag either and we were going to designate someone that we give all the cards to (probably my mom) but still, then that person has to "babysit" the cards so this seems like a good alternate idea. All the extras we have to think about besides the dress, hall, photographer etc etc How have the married girls handled this?? let us know

I feel as comfortable with my photographer as I do with anyone else that I enter a business relationship with. You hope they do their job well and just pray for the best. I've never used him before; we do not go "way back"; his samples are very nice, he's received very good feedback, and that's about it. What more am I supposed to know to make me trust him more? Absolutely nothing. I just assume financial incentives and common courtesty mean alot in the service industry which is why I plan to make sure my photographer is happy (notice how I didn't say band, dj, videographer, etc.) That's all folks.

At first I wanted to use a mailbox. But my dad fought me on it. Said people are giving you a gift and you should graciously receive it and personally thank them for it. I debated over it and eventually gave in.

And I'm glad I did. My guests started giving us envelopes after the cake was served...as they started to leave. It was good b/c I gave them big hugs and thanked them....my aunt bought an ivory satin bag from hallmark a few days before and she put all the cards in the bag. She was sitting down anyway and it wasn't for very long. Once the wedding starts to wind down, everyone starts to leave. We then took the bag w/us on our honeymoon and read the cards at the B&B. It was very heartwarming....

**I had my sister and MoH hand out the favors at the tables when coffee was being served so everyone got a favor and I didn't have to worry about it.