14 Days before my wedding a groomsmen dropped out!

FCsBride914 Posted: Aug 31, 2008 01:12 PM

14 Days before my wedding a groomsmen dropped out!

I am so pissed off at this!!! I can't believe that my FH's best friend would do this to us. We already spent about $100 in gifts for him and we already made arragements for the entrances. He claims that we is not 'well' enough to be in the wedding but he's comming anyway. I don't get it! HELLLO you have to do more walking if you are not in the BP and you have to drive! He said that his back has been bothering him from his car accident last year. I really find that hard to believe.

He is FH's sister ex-fiance. He was with FSIL for like 8 years and FH and him became really close. Everyone is still freinds and there is no 'hard feelings' from their break-up. In the beginning, we asked him if he was comfortable with the situation and he said he don't mind and neither does his fiance.

I just don't get it, all of a sudden!! WHY!?!?!

homiegfunk420 Posted: Aug 31, 2008 01:14 PM

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Funny..but not funny...I am going through the same thing.

My fh's best friend wont return calls/emails/texts

I am up to making the programs and debtaing if i should put his name on it or not...

FH says that is typical of him to 'disappear' for a little bit and he'll come around

WELL WHEN!?!?!

I cant freak out about this anymore...I honestly want to drive to his house (he lives in bayport i live in babylon so its a hike) and leave a note taped on the door and write 'YOURE OUT!'

he'll know who its from!!

bluegreen08 Posted: Aug 31, 2008 01:17 PM

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Kricket212 Posted: Aug 31, 2008 03:37 PM

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Sorry ladies.

homiegfunk420 Posted: Aug 31, 2008 03:38 PM

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Can't wait for it to be over so I can sit back and laugh at all the stupid things that had me stressed out

FCsBride914 Posted: Aug 31, 2008 06:16 PM

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Posted by homiegfunk420

Can't wait for it to be over so I can sit back and laugh at all the stupid things that had me stressed out

I know really, me too!

ChristineAaron08 Posted: Aug 31, 2008 08:08 PM

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We had a GM drop out a week before. He hadn't sent his tux measurments to the tux place or sent the rsvp back, but we thought he was just lazy.

At that point, we really didnt care. All we cared about is that DH and I were there w/ the officiant. Thats all that mattters when it comes down to it

Screw everyone else!! People suuck, plain and simple.