14 days left and someone has the nerve to RSVP???

Ok...what is wrong with people? They actually wrote to me asking if it will bring the cost of the wedding up. UMMMMM>>>DUH!!!! The RSVP date was 9/10!!!!!

To be perfectly honest, that was kind of mean...I would've let her come and enjoyed the fact that she wanted to attend in the first place. So what if it cost you an additional plate? You invited far more than said 'yes' so you had to budget for a larger group in the first place.

I'm sorry, but I think you were a little too hard on the guest...IMHO.

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Posted by CLMon7906

To be perfectly honest, that was kind of mean...I would've let her come and enjoyed the fact that she wanted to attend in the first place. So what if it cost you an additional plate? You invited far more than said 'yes' so you had to budget for a larger group in the first place.

I'm sorry, but I think you were a little too hard on the guest...IMHO.

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sorry, I have to agree

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Posted by Mitabtrfly

Ok...what is wrong with people? They actually wrote to me asking if it will bring the cost of the wedding up. UMMMMM>>>DUH!!!! The RSVP date was 9/10!!!!!

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It's really frustrating when you are trying to get things finalized and people keep calling you making all these changes.

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Posted by stephanief

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Posted by CLMon7906

To be perfectly honest, that was kind of mean...I would've let her come and enjoyed the fact that she wanted to attend in the first place. So what if it cost you an additional plate? You invited far more than said 'yes' so you had to budget for a larger group in the first place.

I'm sorry, but I think you were a little too hard on the guest...IMHO.

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sorry, I have to agree

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agree as well. you can come to ceremony & CH but not the reception...a little rude IMO.

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Posted by stephanief

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Posted by CLMon7906

To be perfectly honest, that was kind of mean...I would've let her come and enjoyed the fact that she wanted to attend in the first place. So what if it cost you an additional plate? You invited far more than said 'yes' so you had to budget for a larger group in the first place.

I'm sorry, but I think you were a little too hard on the guest...IMHO.

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sorry, I have to agree

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Agreed!

We had stragglers RSVP'ing right up until 3 days before the wedding! Seriously, don't sweat the small stuff (and this is the small stuff) , and just enjoy these last few days before your wedding.

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Posted by BEANS

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Posted by stephanief

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Posted by CLMon7906

To be perfectly honest, that was kind of mean...I would've let her come and enjoyed the fact that she wanted to attend in the first place. So what if it cost you an additional plate? You invited far more than said 'yes' so you had to budget for a larger group in the first place.

I'm sorry, but I think you were a little too hard on the guest...IMHO.

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sorry, I have to agree

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agree as well. you can come to ceremony & CH but not the reception...a little rude IMO.

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I had ppl RSVP the same week or ppl who werent invited ask if they could come. But honestly there is going to somebody who doesnt show up.. so I would have let her come.

I am still waiting for about 10 RSVPs...

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Posted by stephanief

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Posted by CLMon7906

To be perfectly honest, that was kind of mean...I would've let her come and enjoyed the fact that she wanted to attend in the first place. So what if it cost you an additional plate? You invited far more than said 'yes' so you had to budget for a larger group in the first place.

I'm sorry, but I think you were a little too hard on the guest...IMHO.

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sorry, I have to agree

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Same here. You can't just 'uninvite' a guest. Even though it is late, she did RSVP. You should accept it.

Did you just assume if someone hadn't RSVP'd on time that they were a no? If so that was a silly assumption. You should have called all people with outstanding RSVP's to check with them. I would never just assume someone was a no if they didn't RSVP on time.

I think you were a little harsh as well.

I think you were a little harsh as well.
Was she late to RSVP, yes....but you also have two weeks left.
I think you should have been a little more accomodating, IMO.

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Posted by diluvchu

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Posted by CLMon7906

To be perfectly honest, that was kind of mean...I would've let her come and enjoyed the fact that she wanted to attend in the first place. So what if it cost you an additional plate? You invited far more than said 'yes' so you had to budget for a larger group in the first place.

I'm sorry, but I think you were a little too hard on the guest...IMHO.

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Same here. You can't just 'uninvite' a guest. Even though it is late, she did RSVP. You should accept it.

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kind of agreeing here too. i mean i understand you were irritated that she didn't RSVP on time--but it's not like she told you the nite before, she said it 2 wks in advance. you INVITED her to your wedding--and when she maybe was finally able to re-arrange her schedule or whatever her reason was for not RSVP'ing on time--you tell her she's gonna cost you $$ and she can't come? i know you are very stressed out--but that might have been a bit much. sorry. JMHO.

some people just dont get it, all i know is once i give my final head count to my hall.... thats it no more to be added period. Nothing personal, just business

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Posted by FallBride05

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Posted by stephanief

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Posted by CLMon7906

To be perfectly honest, that was kind of mean...I would've let her come and enjoyed the fact that she wanted to attend in the first place. So what if it cost you an additional plate? You invited far more than said 'yes' so you had to budget for a larger group in the first place.

I'm sorry, but I think you were a little too hard on the guest...IMHO.

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sorry, I have to agree

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Agreed!

We had stragglers RSVP'ing right up until 3 days before the wedding! Seriously, don't sweat the small stuff (and this is the small stuff) , and just enjoy these last few days before your wedding.

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WHY would you invite her then when she RSVP's late, tell her she can't come to the reception? That is mean. You invited her in the first place! She should have been included in the cost from the beginning!