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18 days to go and..

MeaganAndJoeC Posted:

18 days to go and..

For th first time i'm really feeling the stress/pressure.

I have done a lot but still have somethings to do and apts to attend.

Between the house ( which was built from scrath and we are currently painting and doing hardwood floors) and the wedding I'm really stressing out.

Spent 30 hrs here at the house is 2 days and all I can do as Im working here with my parents and FH is think of all there is still to do for the wedding . I just made Fh a list!!!!!!!!!!!!

Anyone in the same boat????????
ant090608 Posted:

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I feel your pain. I was ripping carpet this weekend and trying to get the house ready. Our house is in shambles, and I really don't know if it will be ready by September! I dream of doing construction- that's how stressed out I am about it. Plus the wedding around the corner- sometimes I feel like having a nervous breadown!
MeaganAndJoeC Posted:

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Posted by ant090608

I feel your pain. I was ripping carpet this weekend and trying to get the house ready. Our house is in shambles, and I really don't know if it will be ready by September! I dream of doing construction- that's how stressed out I am about it. Plus the wedding around the corner- sometimes I feel like having a nervous breadown!




so do I and FH tries to calm me down and sometimes I wish he knew how much went into the planning of the wedding and the minor details that seem, to take the longest!!!!
MeaganAndJoeC Posted:

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Posted by ant090608

I feel your pain. I was ripping carpet this weekend and trying to get the house ready. Our house is in shambles, and I really don't know if it will be ready by September! I dream of doing construction- that's how stressed out I am about it. Plus the wedding around the corner- sometimes I feel like having a nervous breadown!



seems nobody else is feeling our pain
sweetdoublenn Posted:

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First, take a deep breathe! Things are going to be fine! You probably feel this way because the wedding is weeks away and you feel like there is so much to be done!!! It will all work out! Take one day at a time, try not to stress the small stuff. I know that's easier said than done, but don't take on too much otherwise you may feel overwhelmed!! Each day do something!!! You will be fine! I promise!!!!!
MeaganAndJoeC Posted:

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Posted by sweetdoublenn

First, take a deep breathe! Things are going to be fine! You probably feel this way because the wedding is weeks away and you feel like there is so much to be done!!! It will all work out! Take one day at a time, try not to stress the small stuff. I know that's easier said than done, but don't take on too much otherwise you may feel overwhelmed!! Each day do something!!! You will be fine! I promise!!!!!



Thanks, That has been my motto up until now. I have not felt the pressure yet but its coming on quickly. I try to relax and take one thing at a time.

Thanks for your advice!!
sweetdoublenn Posted:

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Posted by MeaganAndJoeC


Posted by sweetdoublenn

First, take a deep breathe! Things are going to be fine! You probably feel this way because the wedding is weeks away and you feel like there is so much to be done!!! It will all work out! Take one day at a time, try not to stress the small stuff. I know that's easier said than done, but don't take on too much otherwise you may feel overwhelmed!! Each day do something!!! You will be fine! I promise!!!!!



Thanks, That has been my motto up until now. I have not felt the pressure yet but its coming on quickly. I try to relax and take one thing at a time.

Thanks for your advice!!



No problem! That's what I am here for! FM me anytime if you wanna run things by me! I think I will feel the way you do in another month from now so I am gonna remember what I said to you!!
oktom22 Posted:

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I can definitely relate...I'm doing the 'little things' now...but w/ all the vendors calling for the appt...things are getting crazy. Between work and wedding planning the past 2 weeks I've gotten an avg of like 4 hrs of sleep a night.

And all I can think about is how many things we still have to do....I have a notepad by the bed, b/c that's when things tend to pop in my head the most...sooooo ready for this HM
msflesch Posted:

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YES!! I am super stressed out!
I work full-time as an attorney, and the wedding and we are moving this week into an apartment - have to move all our stuff in, all new furniture ...

sweetdoublenn Posted:

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By the way...who graduated from the Police Academy? My FH graduated almost 2 years ago!!!

MeaganAndJoeC Posted:

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Posted by sweetdoublenn

By the way...who graduated from the Police Academy? My FH graduated almost 2 years ago!!!



Its the FDNY my FH
MeaganAndJoeC Posted:

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Thanks everyone.. its nice to know you arent the only one that feels this way
sweetdoublenn Posted:

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Posted by MeaganAndJoeC


Posted by sweetdoublenn

By the way...who graduated from the Police Academy? My FH graduated almost 2 years ago!!!



Its the FDNY my FH



OOoooooo!!! It was hard to tell!!! Congrats!!!! That is such an honor!!!

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