19 days left...BM has no bra, no shoes and no fitting!
melissaandsean
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19 days left...BM has no bra, no shoes and no fitting!
And I'm trying not to flip out...but it's hard. We talked last Sunday and she said she was going this week (the one that just passed) to get it all done. I called today to confirm and she PROMISES that it will be this week instead.
I've asked her like 20 times if she needs money, needs help, doesn't want to do it, or anything else and she assures me that she's taking care of it and that I shouldn't worry.
I'm so far beyond worried. And the more I think about it, the more I get myself sick inside.
I will not worry about this. I will not worry about this. I will not worry about this. I will not worry about this.
I have my dress and that's all that matters, right? hehehe
steelersforlife
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Re: 19 days left...BM has no bra, no shoes and no fitting!
I don't understand people sometimes. Why agree to be in someone's wedding and then cause them grief!! Don't worry about it. All will be fine. In the end I am sure that she doesn't want to be in your wedding and looking crazy. She will get it together.
February05
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i know its hard, but dont stress it! one of my BMs had her fittin 2 weeks before. BM alterations arent as intricate, and as far as the shoes and bra, she can get that done in one day and go for the fitting the next day
(but then again, i also didnt go for my fitting until a little over 3 weeks before my wedding)
it will all work out
melissaandsean
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thank you :)
I'm concerned about the bra because she's a 42EE or something. She's not really sure. She's going to mary's corsetieres and hopefully they will have something for her.
I'm trying hard not to stress about it.
David'sbride
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Give me her name, address and phone number and I'll kick her 42EE @ZZ for you
I can understand your stress. I would imagine that a 42EE bra isn't the easiest to find... but then again, I said I had to imagine...
Has she ever been a BM before?
traceyd
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I don't know where your BM lives but if she can't find a bra at Marys she could also try Blum's in Patchogue
lilacwine
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she's got six days longer than my most delinquent BM. I try not to ask.
melissaandsean
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Posted by lilacwine
she's got six days longer than my most delinquent BM. I try not to ask.
I feel a little better now, but a little worse for you
ckgmwedding
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DO NOT WORRY! I was a BM from out of town for two weddings and had my alterations done two days before each wedding and it was fine. Do not stress!
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