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1st Wedding Related Nightmare.

meejack1110 Posted:

1st Wedding Related Nightmare.

So it finally happened to me lol. It wasn't too bad, but in my dream I was just sooo upset


Yesterday FH (surprisingly) got off of work early, since it was too early to make dinner he txt me
'Get dressed lets go look at rings' super exciting, because I've been dying to try bands on, even though its on the early side. So we went, looked at some, didn't make any decisions.

Now in my dream-

It was the next day (today) and we went back, the same guy was there and remembered us. There was also a random woman there, no clue who she is. To make a long story short, they were pressuring us to decide and order the ring I liked the day before, but they wouldn't let me see it again. We told them it was out of budget,and they said they can drop the price- but if they did, the work couldn't be guaranteed and a diamond could just fall out at anytime. (lol I know so stupid). Anyway, I forgot the money at home so FH had to go get it, and all the while I'm on the verge of tears because they are putting serious pressure on me, telling me I can't try on the ring, that I have to decide that minute, that the ring could fall apart lol. FH comes back with the money, and I decide no we aren't ordering it, even though they say then we can never come back, lol and we walk out of there, I'm crying hysterically, and FH turns to me and tells me 'well you handled that really well' lol


So, in the dream we were pressured, but that was sooooo the opposite of our real experience. They're all very nice there, worked with FH when he designed my E-ring, and let him pay it off forever lol. I have no fears about them so this nightmare was really out of nowhere!

At least I got to try on some pretty rings, and now I have one more thing to think about/decide on lol
Soon2BeMrsPy Posted:

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AWWW!! Welcome to the nightmare club!! Isn't it amazing the things our brain comes up with?! Glad to hear your REAL experience was the opposite. What type of band are you thinking about?
meejack1110 Posted:

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I originally dreamed of a really thin one (similar to the band on my e-ring) but I was concerned about being able to wear it alone as well as with my ring. So I tried on all different sizes...here is the one FH likes the best..I'm just not sure I think it may be too much..I don't want it to be gaudy either lol.




The jeweler is getting in more styles this weekend so we plan to go back and try on more.
Soon2BeMrsMango Posted:

1st Wedding Related Nightmare.

wedding nightmares are the worst. I havent had one in a while. im sure i am due soon lol

Angie2014 Posted:

1st Wedding Related Nightmare.

I haven't had one yet, but then, I've only been engaged for two months. I have a wide band engagement ring too, but I don't want a wedding band that's too thin. I think the pic you put up doesn't look like it's too much, but shop around and settle on something you love..

Soon2BeMrsPy Posted:

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Posted by meejack1110

I originally dreamed of a really thin one (similar to the band on my e-ring) but I was concerned about being able to wear it alone as well as with my ring. So I tried on all different sizes...here is the one FH likes the best..I'm just not sure I think it may be too much..I don't want it to be gaudy either lol.




The jeweler is getting in more styles this weekend so we plan to go back and try on more.



L O V E!! I think it is beautiful!!
sgf2 Posted:

1st Wedding Related Nightmare.

I think it's beautiful!! Nothing is ever TOO much, as long as you like it!!

I'm so happy I haven't had any nightmares yet, but that probably has to do with all the stress I put on myself while I'm awake!! Lol
cj52514 Posted:

1st Wedding Related Nightmare.

Ahhhh wedding nightmares are the worst! The best part is waking up and laughing at them afterward.

I don't think the set you have on is too much. I think the band compliments your e-ring, but don't settle for anything! Shop around until you're sure. Have fun!
ajtaormina Posted:

1st Wedding Related Nightmare.

I keep having a nightmare that I have so much time to plan before my wedding so I don't rush and then all of a sudden I wake up and it's my wedding day and I forgot to do certain things....one time it was that I forgot to get limos and the next time it was that I never bought our wedding bands. Really freaks me out lol

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